Quote Originally Posted by magie06 View Post
It's difficult for others to understand when we can't find the words ourselves. Perhaps show your wife your posts here. You've explained yourself very well here. She might learn something here that she doesn't already know that might give her a further insight into how you are feeling.
I think it would be too much for her to read what i've written .... i think it would shock her as i've been a lot more blunt on here than i appear to anyone near me

Like i said on my original post in this thread ... i'm scared to talk to my parents now - given what they said when my mom got rushed to hospital....
My wife and i just don't spend much time 'talking' .... when the kids are finally in bed asleep its usually past 9 and we both want some space ....
Just feels like there's so little love or caring between us these days .... i'm kinda scared myself that i don't love her as much anymore.... we don't have a love life anymore - i don't want to be intimate - just don't feel passion towards her