Venturing out of the dark *TRIGGERS*

[Jaquaia]

I've got a court summons through for more then £1800 for something dickhead assured me he had sorted and gotten written off while we were still together. I texted him about it and all I got was "you were there, you heard them say they would write it off". No offer to help pay or anything. I've blown up, called him a parasite and blocked every way of getting in touch that he has and promptly had a meltdown, except I decided to hoover the hallway rather then hurt myself.

[Paula]

Talk to Citizens Advice. They’ll be able to support you

[S deleted]

Oh mate you have my sympathy. I’m still paying off debts from my ex too. Parasite is pretty much accurate.

[Suzi]

Definitely talk to the CAB, they should be able to help you so you don't have to deal with it...

[Jaquaia]

I'd gone into hiding again. I do that when I'm struggling I've noticed. A lot of old feelings are being dragged up this week that I would rather stay buried.

[Paula]

Very huge, gentle hugs

[S deleted]

So instead of burying them why not let them out? Maybe they will be gone for good that way or at least less of a problem.

[Jaquaia]

It's an old problem. Talking about it doesn't seem to help much. I know that I've spoken about it here before. I just wish I could stop giving others words the power to hurt me.

[OldMike]

It's an old problem. Talking about it doesn't seem to help much. I know that I've spoken about it here before. I just wish I could stop giving others words the power to hurt me.

Jaq get on the phone to Stella, Suzi or Paula, I'm sure they will be happy to lend a listening ear and proffer some helpful advice on the other hand if you want to chat to an ancient old fart I'm here

[S deleted]

Old problem?