I've been posting in the dark, dusty corners of the forum Mike (really Suzi! Those cobwebs are getting ridiculous now!)
Oi! You know where the cleaning cupboard is!
I think you're handling this changeover really well love. I know it doesn't feel it right now, but you are doing great.
I also think there are many other things that they could try, should they be able to.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!