Actually I think that Stella is right in a way - maybe she should have been a bit gentler in the approach.... BUT when you were meeting up and doing your exercise programme you seemed to have more sparkle about you itms? But since that's stopped your life purely revolves around caring for your Mum and that's not healthy for either of you.... Apart from when you went to Manchester, when did you last get out and do something different for fun? Something that didn't revolve around hospitals, counsellors, drs etc.....