Hope everything is sorted and OK now lovely?
Hope everything is sorted and OK now lovely?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Determined.
He did not sleep at his Mum's but on the sofa instead. She has told him he needs to grow up and take some responsibility around the place. This morning H and I have drawn up three lists of what has to be done both in work and at home in the hope that he will understand that H and I are busy and cannot run round being his nursemaid. The list for H and me are full, his list has three things on it.... God help him if he does not do them!! He will certainly not be sleeping in the house if that happens! Next step after the sofa is the studio!!
Success is not final, Failure is not fatal.
Hi pen, just thought I'd pop in and say hello. So Hello!
3 things? Can you not delegate a bit more?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
We are trialling a new system, I have bought a small white board with the days of the week on it and I can write up the jobs that need doing. He went to group counselling this morning and did not get back till after lunch but he did at least clean the cat trays and round up the plates in his sitting room. The kitchen is pilled high tonight however and I just want to cry. I love my job but the stress of trying to keep it all together is getting to me a bit. There is just so much to do at work and when I get home the place is just a mess. I am not blaming them but its all becoming a bit much again.
Success is not final, Failure is not fatal.
What about getting another cleaner?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
No I don't have time to deal with a cleaner.
I have been catatonic this morning, my brain had just shut down and I have spent most of the day just lying on my bed, thinking nothing and staring at the wall. I did clean up the crockery and part of the breakfast bar which is used as a dumping ground for everything and the hall. H has applied a cattle prod to A I think! he has swept the kitchen and hall floor, is now on his hands and knees vacuuming it and then intends to wash it. This is great BUT he is making such a huge job out of it (he is running with sweat) that I know he will not want to do it again anytime soon!!
Success is not final, Failure is not fatal.
Can you accept it for today?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Depends on the cleaner. Mine is amazing, she gets in, does a great job and doesn't waste any time - mine or hers.
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
The cleaner was fine. the problem is I don't have time to tidy up for them
Success is not final, Failure is not fatal.