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    Go for a bit, it might be fun.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rose View Post
    Go for a bit, it might be fun.
    I agree with Rose, it should be fun, just be careful what you drink.
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    I completely agree, go and see how things are.
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    I went to the party, it was hard but I had enough patience to resist. When it got late I went home.

    Many of the girls are just interested in superficial stuff and nothing serious to discuss. I sit next to my boss and other colleague. It was not easy and refused to drink whiskey and vodaka. Just some champagne, and already had headache.

    All these people are normal, while I am a little wild isolated depressive woman, although they may not know it.

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    To be fair to your colleagues, I'm not sure I ever discussed serious stuff at parties

    Hunni, there is no normal. Everyone is different, with different issues, different upbringings etc. No one who doesn't know me would believe my mental health is literally a battle every day to manage, that I'm constantly covering up my tremors and that my confidence and bubbly nature is often put on. Your colleagues don't know you suffer with depression, as you don't know if they have problems - mental or physical. Please don't feel you're the only one .....
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    How are you today, lovely?
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    Quote Originally Posted by selina
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    All these people are normal, while I am a little wild isolated depressive woman, although they may not know it.
    Normality is an illusion, you rarely see people as they truly are. I've often looked at other people and thought wish I had their life and not mine, the reality is probably something completely different their lives may not be as brilliant and exciting as it appears to be to an outsider.
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    Paula and Mike are right. I think if you met anyone of us here at a party it would all be "small talk" and nothing serious and that we'd all come across completely differently to how we do here where we are safe to be open and honest about how we really feel.
    It's about faking it till you make it in some situations..
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    Thank you for your kind words.

    I'm fine. Just feeling these lumps and very worried, just don't know what to think.

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    When did you last see your Dr about the lumps?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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