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    Thank you to all, it really helped me.

    Just a question: if I really want to try to communicate on skype, should I do it? I mean he has maybe lost any interest and I'm becoming too insistent.

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    And once again, should I tell this kind of guy directly that he has to respect a little of my schedule?

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    If you want to then yes. But not if you don't want to.
    Yes this man should respect your schedule!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    And how should I tell someone I more or less like that I'm ready to talk on skype?

    Lol, what kind of stupidities I'm writing, but that's it...

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    It's not stupidity at all!
    Just tell them!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Don't let anyone push you into something you don't want to do Selena. I always say that the right relationship just feels right.

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    If only I'll be more confident and tell them directly some things.

    Also a simple situation: I used to chat with a man on dating site, he seemed nice. Then he lost a lttle interest when I said I need some time. I get he wants more photos of me and skype, but I don't get his way of vanishing either.

    Should I tell him about this?

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    If you are still talking, then hopefully the relationship and trust should grow between you and you can talk about anything eventually.
    If you haven't heard anything from him for a while, then I would leave it, or just send a simple message saying hi, maybe?
    I am a bit concerned about the relationships you are forming, they seem to be very fast, formal..? I am not sure, just something doesn't seem right.
    I've met guys online, connected through chatting, and then agreed to meet (or not!!!!) But it was all quite informal, fun and natural.

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    Yes, Rose, that's right.

    No, we more or less contact. The thing is that is really difficult to build a relation with a person of different religion.

    He says he is tolerant but he simply understands only his philosophy and values.

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    If your religion is important to you, then its very important your future partner respects your religious beliefs.
    I am Church Of England (Protestant) and my boyfriend is Catholic. We sometimes tease each other that the other isn't the 'real faith' but its all in jest. We are both proud to be Christian, and proud to be the type of Christian that we are.

    I don't think its an intolerant view to want your partner to be the same religion, if religion is important to you. After all, if you marry you may want to marry in church, and how you bring up your children would be effected too.

    I honestly think that meeting people who live close to you, so you can date without pressure, and spend time getting to know each other in real life, is the best way. But that is just my opinion.

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