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    What decision, hunni?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    You can always come and talk to us
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    What thoughts love?
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    I've had a misunderstanding with my dad. He had promised before that I could come in Latvia in summer and find a job. Now he has told that his mother doesn't want anyone in their house, neither his girlfriend, nor me...regardless of the person.
    I'm feeling betrayed and don't really want to visit them.

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    Oh, it sounds like he didn’t discuss this with his mother beforehand. My husband is good at doing those sort of things ..... do you know your grandmother well?

    Could you stay somewhere near to them?
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    I don't know yet, but that's a good idea, Paula. I could suggest something, but thank God I have not applied yet and have not paid the air tickets that are rather expensive.

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    I'd also suggest staying somewhere near, rather than staying with them.
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    I'm still a little bit frustrated and deeply depressed. I think all this due to the events I have passed through recently, the imminent smell of death...But also harsh work schedule (although my boss calmed down for now), and the fact that I'm losing slowly weight and cannot really accept myself.

    On the good side, I've came across a psychoterapist in the same building I'm working in. Well, they are private, but I might consider it anyway (some sessions) because the waiting seems infinite here. I've even briefly talked to her, but they use "psychodrama" method, do you know something about it? What are your thoughts?

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    I’d not heard of psychodrama, tbh, but in principle it sounds interesting. Are they accredited?

    You have been through a lot recently, hunni, and I really believe you need professional help. Please, please find that help
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    In what way can't you accept yourself? It's good you're losing weight if you are trying to...
    I think that psychotherapy can be really helpful.. It's like every therapy though, some works for some and not for others.... I would definitely suggest giving it a go!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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