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    Selena if you feel confident about freelance work then go for it you're an excellent translator but if you go it alone how will get work to translate? Will you rely on the contacts you've already established to provide you with work or will you advertise in the press etc.
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    One word to what Suzi posted - AMEN

    I couldn't have put it better, you can guide your children but NEVER push them in a direction they don't want to go.

    You can't live someone else's life they're taken so just live your own.

    Either work for a different company or set out on your own either way don't stay in a job where you're so badly treated.

    Life ain't easy for any of us, you're a talented translator Selena so go for it.
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    Thank you everybody.
    I should definitely go.
    She has become dangerous. Especially two last incidents proved it.

    Yesterday a man came to her office for translation services, he was from Israel.He shouted at her that she hadn't done her services properly. A translator from my company did it.
    Generally, she is good at her job.
    But this man came and asked for stamp of sworn translator, because the girl is not sworn.
    This man was very nervous and he seemed crazy too.
    She asked me to put my stamp and sign like I had done it. I replied instead that I should check it carefully first and refused-NO. He didn't want to wait for proper check
    and I refused. She shouted, called me all names, jumped.

    A colleague of mine, also sworn translator of English and Romanian, just like me, a good translator who worked nights too. She became sworn this spring, also pair English-Romanian.

    We had been recognized as specialists able to translate into English and to present a clear message of Romanian text.

    Well, she decided to leave after New Year, because she cannot tolerate it anymore.
    She has told me today she cannot imagine how I still survive in this chaos.
    She came to my boss yesterday with a statement that she wants to leave.
    My boss threatened her and said she would not let anyone sworn go in that simple way, because we will regret.
    But she can let her go if she resigns forever and never works as a translator in Moldova.

    She has no right because she didn't give us this right, but the Ministry of Justice.
    Now the girl has told me she wants to leave in 2 weeks.
    She told me other translator who left the company, had also been threatened
    I asked how she thinks to sort it out.
    The girl said she would go to Labor Inspection and to Police and will record everything if necessary.

    My boss has become crazy and dangerous.
    Now I think what to do next.

    Also: one of managers treated badly my customer (this lady has mental problems due to her). They shouted at her and she was mocked. My boss has began to call people "idiots, carrots, Aspergers".

    If I have mental problems, this has nothing to do with her, and that does not make a nothing.

    Sorry for any mistakes.

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    so, does that mean you’ve resigned? How much longer can you last in that toxic environment, lovely?
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    You really need to to resign Selena you can't possibly work under such conditions
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    I would have gone yesterday, if not my mother.

    I don't know how to escape from this witch.

    I have suicidal thoughts.

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    Selena, I don't know how we can make you see that you have to leave. If you are having suicidal thoughts then you have to do something about it. You HAVE to get help from the psch/mental health team and you have to leave....
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Thank you for your support.

    It will be hard to find an official new job before New Year, but I can definitely look up (although have a little time).

    Just might God give me strength because it has become impossible.

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    I would also like to share some of my feelings, inner battle.

    I'm feeling sometimes lower in comparison with others because of my mental problems, of this strugle (not related to my work problems). Like I'm feeling guily because I'm unable to be like average persons and to overcome these horrible thoughts.

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    1 in every 4 people suffer with mental health issues in their lifetime. That sounds pretty average to me ...
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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