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    She is still weak, but rather fine.

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    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Glad she is home and is doing ok lovely...
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    Neurologist prescribed me today Mexazolam for 20 days.

    It's very difficult with my boss, but my mum is against my decision to resign.She asked to wait a little at least until we'll pay credit (and this until May!).
    This unhealthy atmosphere is hard for my mental condition first of all.
    I'm really messed up about any possibilities, even Latvia.My mom thanked me again for doing so much for her but that's normal.

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    Why have they prescribed that for 20 days?
    So your Mum wants you to stay with your boss even though it's making you ill?
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    She thinks the symptoms might get milder within this period.

    She wants me to wait, being anxious about stability and our future.

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    It's worth trying love...
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    I'm facing a dilemma, I want to be a freelancer, I'm being fed up with my boss sh..., even with some customers, with translations at night.

    Just have to convince my mother...

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    Selena, it’s your decision. It’s your life and your career
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    Quote Originally Posted by selena View Post
    I'm facing a dilemma, I want to be a freelancer, I'm being fed up with my boss sh..., even with some customers, with translations at night.

    Just have to convince my mother...
    Can I be rude? I don't mean to be, but I think blunt is probably better...
    Our eldest is almost 18. He's been looking at universities and courses. He has chosen that after his A Levels this summer he is wanting to go to a uni on the other side of the country to do an amazing sounding law course. Both of these are HIS choices as it's his life.
    My daughter is almost 15. Last term at school she had to pick what options she wanted to take for her GCSE exams in 2 years time. Marc and I guided her, but it's her life and her decision. We chose to let her do the things she loves to do....
    Our youngest isn't sure what languages or sciences she wants to do. She's heavily dyslexic and her spelling in English is appalling, however she is excelling in French and Spanish and all 3 sciences and art. What options she picks are HER choice. It's HER life.

    Do you see where I'm getting at? My Mum insisted I took Business Studies A Level. I hated it. Every second of it. I did brilliantly in it, but hated it. I would have rathered done something different... I will never make my children take something if they don't want to (unless it's compulsory lol)

    It's a sad fact, but your Mum isn't always going to be here and do you really want to be tied to a job you hate and is making you ill when you have so many hopes and dreams of travel and freelance and being your own boss? You will never be as young as you are right here, right now. Do whatever YOU want. Do NOT live your life for her.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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