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    Ok so this guy isn’t your usual type, but that is probably a good thing cos let’s be honest, the men you go for don’t exactly seem to be the right ones. It doesn’t hurt to try something different to see if you like it.

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    This man isn't you usual type (personality wise or looks wise?), maybe that is a good thing. Do you get on well together? If so just see how it goes.
    77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"

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    Marc wasn't "my type" either, but we've been together for over 18 years and married for over 10 and we have 3 children together. Step outside your comfort zone and try! Go out for a coffee or something with them and see if you like him!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I mean in matter of looks first.

    I also have stronger academic degree, but this doesn't matter so much in fact.

    He is very calm and he has said himself that he will feel happy even if we remain just friends. He is not bad looking either and we get on very well - it is still the beginning, but he seems to be the "best" of my "admirers" so far. And the way he treats a woman - that's nice.

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    Sounds like a decent enough guy.

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    Then see how things go
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    Actually feeling lost and not very happy. My mom's condition is slightly better, but still there are some problems.

    Her surgeon told that she has a very rare cancer type and her case presents interest for medicine too.

    I'm feeling less anxious at work but later I feel like I'm getting stuck in the depressive and suicidal mares, because I'm unable to change anything.

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    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Oh hunni I'm so sorry about your Mum. Do you have support? Over here we have the MacMillian Cancer charity who provide such great support, help, advice etc... Can you access something like that?
    If you are still dealing with suicidal thoughts can you get to see your Dr and get some help? You are important.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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