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    Yes, it seems we have sorted it out. She will just get antibiotics and will postpone the drip treatment due to consequences coming after.

    However her doctor told us not to panic and that the second surgery is necessary to be done in autumn.

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    I would have thought that, if they were really worried, they wouldn't wait til the autumn to do the op. I'd take that as positive news
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    I agree. If it was severe and serious, then there is no way that a surgeon would wait until September.
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    We talked with her about our life and future too.

    She is very concerned and fears that she can die soon and that's so difficult to find a suitable man (in my case).

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    Selena, have you tried telling her that there is more to life than finding a man?
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    Yes, but I think she is very shocked after everything. In these moments, people do believe in curse and bad luck.

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    They do... But thinking like that doesn't help anyone.
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    We decided with doc to postpone surgery until autumn.

    As for me, I've felt very bad the last days, I thought it was due to gallstone. But it's probably due to my last discovery -high blood pressure, I haven't had any complaints before.

    And my boss on my head again, although I do my best for my health first, at least trying.

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    Sweetheart you need to find some time out lovely...
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    Unfortunately situation with my mom is not good at all.

    Her surgeon and the other one working in Oncology department are the only to perform this kind of surgery in my country, but she is willing to expect her doc, we know that he is not only a great doctor, but a great person too, as for Oncology institute people have told they ask for bribes for everything.
    But the problem is deeper.
    If she keeps on feeling like this, I doubt she can survive it, I mean be ready for it.

    One more thing:She felt ok until the nurse (there are more of them) put her on a drip on the first day,then she suddenly felt worse and ultimately tests proved raised level of sugar.She thinks the nurse committed a mistake...I really don't know, her situation is fragile, but she certainly did feel worse after this, here there had been cases when nurses put mistaken medecines.
    yes, there are complaints and hospital usually covers such incidents, but she felt extremely bad and this nurse unexpectedly got on holiday on Monday (first day on the drip was on Saturday).
    I mean we have a very few good specialists in medicine, her condition was already fragile.

    Her second doctor works in August, but he's young and he is assistant surgeon.
    She is due to have some blood tests on Monday. No tumor near pancreas detected, everything clear there and cancer markers apparently more or less ok too.
    Her sugar level before the drip was lower, maybe it was due to her reaction to glucose
    But the main surgeon and her doc considered and her doc told me that her situation is very fragile and she shouldn't postpone if occurs something worse.
    Now she's waiting for referral for nuclear medicine scan, so that they can clearly see everything. The chief of family health center recommended going to Oncology center but she refused, having decided to wait for her surgeon.

    And she signed the paper of refusal.
    Surgeon told that this surgery will be more complex and they will extract that tissue and finally determine the cause.

    I really hope this shall be just a stone or benign tissue.
    She had more appetite and was rather vivacious before this drip, but I think even if the drip caused it, it is linked to her initial condition and in such cases any error can be fatal.
    After she felt worse, her doc recommended a course of medicines - mainly Heptral.

    They noticed smth on x-ray but couldn't identify its nature
    If she was weak before that proposal of surgery, now she has weakened more.
    He supposed a kind of "medical" Hepatitis.
    Her skin got yellower, she lost more weight, occasional rather often waves of nausea, and now high fever nearly daily even she didn't sort out.
    She has been given course of antibiotics, but it helped just a little.
    I'm really afraid of cancer. But we should resist before it and how she can stand up in this way?
    They told cancer final diagnosis or clearance from it can be known only through nuclear tomography and via this surgery.
    She often takes Nimesil for fever decrease, today it has slowed down so difficult.

    I think I can go crazy, already high blood pressure, I have prayed, but well you know I believe less and less in these things with church.

    She has a bad headache too. I really don't know how we can wait and what can be done

    Maybe I should talk to my dad, although he is such a weak man and barely helped me with anything...

    Sorry for such a messy text and any mistakes.

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