Time Passing By and Fear of Failure *Triggers*

[selena]

My mum was 41 when I was born.

Were you first child?

Thank you both for your answers.

Besides this race, there is always something to regret and to blame myself on not doing something important in the past.

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Were you first child?

Thank you both for your answers.

Besides this race, there is always something to regret and to blame myself on not doing something important in the past.

No, I was my mum's 3rd child, but my fathers first. I have a friend who was told she would never have children and even if by some miracle did become pregnant wouldn't be able to carry a child to term. She now has healthy twin boys and she was mid 30s when she had them.

I have two beautiful young boys myself whom I love with all my heart but I still feel like a failure as I was unable to give birth naturally I guess we need to accept that life isn't always as perfect as we'd like it to be and roll with the blows but that is so much easier to say than to do