Time Passing By and Fear of Failure *Triggers*

[mitz]

you are lucky Paula for having found the right person. Others are not so lucky ; ( I'm having a nightmare online dating atm, its really disheartening, depressing, and I can't bear it anymore. I've wasted my whole life on non-starter men, and now I am more emotionally ready (I think) , men don't want to know women over 40, or don't want to know me! I'm so fed up of being the one without a family to share and do things with. it's too depressing. Selena you are much younger than me, it will be much easier for you - don't waste anymore time. Weight isn't the issue either, like Paula said. It's about how you feel and how ready you feel for intimacy, a relationship etc.

[Paula]

you are lucky Paula for having found the right person. Others are not so lucky ; (

Mitz, yes I'm lucky I've got a wonderful husband, but it took a lot of trauma to get there - a difficult first marriage, husband leaving me when our baby was 6 months old for a younger woman. So, yes, my hubby is amazing, but that doesn't mean I haven't struggled - I just had no opportunity but to get through that period in my life and get to the point where I could move on

[selena]

On the good note, I'm happy that I have a little clawed and plush friend, that I adopted some years ago.

[mitz]

Mitz, yes I'm lucky I've got a wonderful husband, but it took a lot of trauma to get there - a difficult first marriage, husband leaving me when our baby was 6 months old for a younger woman. So, yes, my hubby is amazing, but that doesn't mean I haven't struggled - I just had no opportunity but to get through that period in my life and get to the point where I could move on

I wasn't suggesting you don't/havent struggled Paula!