You have no need to feel guilty. She knows you love her and that is the main thing. You need to be kind to you lovely
You have no need to feel guilty. She knows you love her and that is the main thing. You need to be kind to you lovely
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Sweetheart every time anyone passes away those left behind feel guilty. It'll never make any difference how much time you spent with her, you'd always find another reason to feel guilty. It's "just" part of grief.
You need to be kind to yourself. You need to remember that you loved her and she loved you. Remember the good times and all the words of wisdom she has shared with you.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I can’t agree with Jaq and Suzi more. Sending you much love and hugs, sweetie
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
The previous ladies are right when someone close passes there's so many what ifs, I know it's a cliche but time heals. I've lost both my parents and the sadness I felt then has now faded and I remember the smiles and laughs we had together.
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
Thank you for kind words, it really touched my soul.
Me and my mom...we will adjust to new reality, it's just hard to manage this at once. Even our cat seems to be "messed up" because he had never been alone at home before.
It will take time lovely. My nana died when I was 17 and I still miss her. It gets easier but you don't necessarily get over it, you just learn how to deal with it so it hurts a bit less
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My maternal grandpa meant a lot to me too. When he died, I was still a teenager. Now, being adult and more responsible, grief is the same, but this death's perception is different.
Do what you need to do to help you through this lovely. It was the anniversary of my Dad's passing a couple of weeks ago and I still miss him.... Sweetheart grief is horrible. Talk to those around you and work through it at your pace..
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I'm still grieving, but I'm slowly getting better too.
I felt so bad the upcoming week after funeral, even yesterday, having experienced vertigo, nausea and bad headaches. My mom even went to a check at hospital.
My boss provided support to me too, asking not to put on me much work last week. I still don't know about my job. Because my dad called me last week and asked to wait a little as he expects me to come to Latvia next year, and it shall be better to keep my current job position for better opportunities there.
My endo increased Metformin dosage up to 1500 mg/day and I'll undergo blood test and other exams in December. It's ok, just experiencing more nausea and nearly impossible for me to eat meat on this dosage.
So sorry to hear about your loss Selena. I never knew any of my grandparents. Time will heal Selena. I'm sure you had many happy times together, and have many lovely photos of you all together to look at and smile about.
selena (30-09-18)