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Paula
27-11-20, 09:10 PM
That lift your spirits. Jax is lovely and gentle but he never cuddles up with us. But tonight he spent 45 mins approx (timed by watching Discovery) curled up next to me having lots of belly strokes. It was lovely :)

Angie
27-11-20, 09:24 PM
Awww bless him

Stella180
27-11-20, 09:38 PM
I’m still struggling to get over Demi’s Jack Russell bark. I’m not sure who enjoyed the bully rubs more, you or Jax, but Discovery was ace.

Paula
27-11-20, 09:50 PM
Yeah, she really doesn’t sound like a 30kg greyhound ;). Discovery was ace, I love Michael Burnham!

Stella180
27-11-20, 09:55 PM
My fave character has to be Jet Reno. She is my kinda gal. Sarcastic and hilarious.

Suzi
27-11-20, 10:50 PM
Aww that's lovely! I've had Crash snuggling on my knee this evening too, it's lovely.

Paula
29-11-20, 07:10 PM
I’m exhausted. I’ve been putting the Christmas decorations up. I hadn’t realised how much Katie used to do. Still, other than the outside lights, which are Si’s domain, it’s all done :)

Angie
29-11-20, 07:27 PM
Please rest now sweetie x Caitlin does mine apart from ceiling decs as wont let her climb, saying that the rate she is growing she wont need to climb soon lol

Stella180
29-11-20, 07:43 PM
She was tall enough last time I was her so I can imagine her is a lot bigger after all that time.

Why didn’t you wait til Katie could help?

Paula
29-11-20, 08:28 PM
Because Katie’s not allowed in the house til Christmas

Stella180
29-11-20, 08:36 PM
:( that sucks.

Suzi
29-11-20, 09:30 PM
I'm glad it's done (we were going to do ours, but other things got in the way. I will have my way by hook or by crook and have them tomorrow.... ) Are you resting tomorrow or another busy week?

Paula
29-11-20, 11:04 PM
Resting, I’m flaring. Not helped by walking into the dishwasher the other day and my bad leg has a monster of a bruise.....

Stella180
29-11-20, 11:12 PM
Ouch! That doesn’t sound like a very clever thing to do. Kick the dishwasher I mean.

Strugglingmum
30-11-20, 12:10 AM
Oh no. Hope it settles soon.

Angie
30-11-20, 02:31 AM
Oh sweetie ouch! Glad your going to be resting.

Caitlin is just a tiny bit short of 6 foot Stella now and another 6 years of growing to go

Paula
30-11-20, 07:41 AM
https://i.ibb.co/TtnDDj3/139-D2668-CDEA-45-E6-AF23-DE09-BD463873.jpg (https://ibb.co/0rWpp4b)

Suzi
30-11-20, 08:42 AM
Ouch! I'm sorry you appear to have my level of spacial awareness... You still flaring? What's on your agenda today?

Strugglingmum
30-11-20, 09:20 AM
Are you resting up today??
Please be very kind to you. X

Paula
30-11-20, 09:51 AM
Spatial awareness? I do not know of such a concept! As our mains electrics have tripped this morning and we’ve spent easily half hour of ‘is that it? No? Try the next one’....... there is no more physical stuff on my agenda lol. Yes, I’m sore but it’s bearable. So, I’ll do some non physical study ;)

Angie
30-11-20, 10:18 AM
Ouch! and another ouch for the electrics its a pain in the a$$ when that happens hope it is sorted x

Suzi
30-11-20, 11:30 AM
I'm glad you're going to be sensible about it....
Did you work out the problem with the electrics?

Paula
30-11-20, 12:25 PM
The water softener leaked onto the socket, apparently. Plumber’s coming out on Thursday but it was easily isolated

Suzi
30-11-20, 01:06 PM
Glad it was easy to isolate, what a pita though!

OldMike
30-11-20, 03:34 PM
Water softener what luxury oop north we's as hard as nails (giggle)

Paula
30-11-20, 05:15 PM
Our water here is very, very, very hard so a water softener is necessary if we don’t want to replace our washing machine every year ;)

Suzi
30-11-20, 08:10 PM
I'm just outside London. Ours is so hard that when she was a baby F was allergic to plain water in her bath...

Flo
01-12-20, 05:52 AM
I remember when living near London that a bubble bath turned to scum within 5 minutes! It ruins WM's!

Suzi
01-12-20, 08:53 AM
Yup...

Hey Princess Sparkles, how are you?

Mira
01-12-20, 09:57 AM
I wanted to give you one of these (panda) after i saw that picture. But now I am sending these as well (panda)(panda) just for you being you. Because you are amazing and you are a friend.

Paula
01-12-20, 10:07 AM
I’m fine. Tired, as I was up at 6 this morning (after getting stuck into a book and not getting to bed till 1) fighting to pull my mask off. Although that’s better than the last week or so. I’ve been either taking the mask off or switching the machine off in my sleep.

Oh what rubbish we keep! We’re replacing all the study furniture so going through everything to bin as much as possible. Si’s just found blockbusters vouchers from January 2010! (rofl)

We’ve had a request from the medical team looking after my cousin who’s had bowel and liver cancer. Because they’ve found out that he has a gene mutation called Lynch Syndrome, which greatly increases the risk of cancers such as bowel, womb, ovarian, pancreas etc, (and significantly under the age of 50) we’ve been asked if we would be willing to have genetic testing to find out if we have the mutation. By we, I mean the whole (very large) family. At the moment it’s just information gathering and not compulsory but, if and when they test those of us who do agree, and if the test is positive, it would mean regular and frequent surveillance inc colonoscopies, for everyone over age 25.

I’ve agreed, as well as Katie, but Jess has said no. Which is fine, if Katie and I are negative, Jess would be too. And my brother, whose ex wife lost her brother just a few months after diagnosis at the age of 24, has said no for him and his boys. Again, if Katie, mum and I are negative, it would mean he doesn’t need to worry about it - as he doesn’t want to cause unnecessary stress and heartache for her.

Suzi
01-12-20, 01:31 PM
That's a big thing on you and Katie though, how do you feel about it?

We've done the same with sorting the front room. It's amazing what we found!

Paula
01-12-20, 03:53 PM
That it’s a big thing on Katie and I.... but I’ve always been one to want to know, and if it means my nephews don’t have to worry about their mum, it’s worth it.

Paula
01-12-20, 05:44 PM
Doh. I came over ill this afternoon - dizzy to the point of losing vision for a few seconds, thumping head etc. I forgot my lunchtime meds with my second venlafaxine dose ......

Stella180
01-12-20, 05:47 PM
That doesn’t sound good at all.

Paula
01-12-20, 05:52 PM
I’ll be fine in a few hours

Stella180
01-12-20, 06:08 PM
I hope so

Angie
01-12-20, 06:24 PM
Opps x

Strugglingmum
01-12-20, 06:25 PM
(panda)

Suzi
01-12-20, 07:13 PM
Oh bugger! You OK?

Paula
01-12-20, 07:14 PM
Yeah, recovering :)

Suzi
01-12-20, 07:16 PM
Good. Resting?

Paula
01-12-20, 07:19 PM
Yeah. It’ll be an early night, I think.

Suzi
01-12-20, 07:20 PM
Good.

Paula
04-12-20, 09:30 AM
Jax considers my bed to be his bed and Demi usually respects this ......


https://i.ibb.co/mCfvH3R/4-B7-D335-F-29-D1-45-EB-A5-FA-B048-E5-CFE0-B2.jpg (https://ibb.co/99Qwq7p)

Jaquaia
04-12-20, 09:59 AM
(rofl)(rofl)(rofl)

Suzi
04-12-20, 10:10 AM
(rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

OldMike
04-12-20, 03:14 PM
Haha I see Jax and Demi have laid claim to your bed looks like it's another night on the sofa for you My Lady (giggle)

Paula
04-12-20, 04:06 PM
Lol, I’m fine - it’s usually Si who gets shoved off by the bed thief ;)

It’s Si’s last day at Hive today....

Suzi
04-12-20, 05:08 PM
How's he coping with it being the last day?

Paula
04-12-20, 05:09 PM
He’s emotional. He says it’s the first time he’s left a job he still loves

Suzi
04-12-20, 05:12 PM
That's really horrible. Does he know what he's going to?

Paula
04-12-20, 05:12 PM
No, nothings materialised yet

Suzi
04-12-20, 05:15 PM
Is he worried about it? Or is he actually worried, just not saying so to you?

Paula
04-12-20, 05:47 PM
He seems really calm. I have asked if he’s just not telling me but he says no. We’ve got about 6 months money so we’ll see

Suzi
04-12-20, 06:35 PM
Something better will come up for him, I'm sure.

Knowle
04-12-20, 07:52 PM
I am sorry to hear about this Paula - I hope he finds something good soon.

Suzi
04-12-20, 09:32 PM
Are YOU coping with it?

Paula
04-12-20, 10:39 PM
At the moment, yes. I’m not sure how long that will last but we’ll see. It will be nice to have him around, properly, for a little while

Suzi
05-12-20, 10:13 AM
It'll be good for both of you...

How are you both today?

Paula
05-12-20, 10:52 AM
Ok. Katie’s coming over in half hour and we’re going to have a family walk with the dogs :) I had my hair cut yesterday so I don’t have lockdown hair anymore lol and it’s MUSICALS NIGHT!!!!!!!! (party)

Suzi
05-12-20, 10:55 AM
Woohoo!!!! What an awesome day!

Paula
06-12-20, 05:03 PM
Blimey, I feel asleep just after lunch and have just woken up. Needed me thinks!

Stella180
06-12-20, 05:06 PM
That’s what Sunday afternoons are for.

Paula
06-12-20, 08:43 PM
Well, that was weird. I shared a photo of my (flump) of mini bobble hats and someone asked me to knit some for her sister in law. I explained I’m a beginner but she is absolutely sure she wants them!

Stella180
06-12-20, 08:48 PM
Check you out doing commissions lol

Paula
06-12-20, 08:53 PM
(rofl)

Suzi
06-12-20, 09:19 PM
That's really cool! They are fabulous little hats. You should be proud!

Flo
07-12-20, 06:15 AM
What a lovely day you had....can you put pix of bobbly hats on here??

Paula
07-12-20, 07:10 AM
There you go, Flo :)

https://i.ibb.co/pzjyrtj/EA3-E94-F7-E039-4-F60-9021-849-AD9-BD62-D7.jpg (https://ibb.co/vP4Yv74)
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Suzi
07-12-20, 08:18 AM
How are your books organised? I love seeing well loved books!

Paula
07-12-20, 01:05 PM
Organised? There is absolutely no point even trying - putting things back where they belong is beyond Si - keys, books, cushions, shoes .......

Suzi
07-12-20, 01:30 PM
(rofl) (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

Paula
07-12-20, 04:16 PM
I’m a complicated woman. Today I have studied the doctrine of the Holy Spirit, then rocked out to School of Rock whilst knitting a mini bobble hat ;)

Suzi
07-12-20, 04:24 PM
That's an epic day of epicness!

Strugglingmum
07-12-20, 04:34 PM
Not complicated, just well rounded.

Stella180
07-12-20, 04:57 PM
Not seen school of rock in years! Jack Black’s best movie.

Paula
07-12-20, 05:48 PM
Not seen school of rock in years! Jack Black’s best movie.

Completely agree (though I do like Jumanji ;))

Mira
07-12-20, 09:10 PM
Yeah not complicated at all. Maybe knowing what she wants and doing a good mix of study and relaxing. More of this \o/

Paula
09-12-20, 10:20 AM
Eye appointment *tick*. Scans, tests etc show there has been some improvement and the doctor is a lot happier with them :)

Angie
09-12-20, 10:35 AM
Thats brilliant news xx

Strugglingmum
09-12-20, 10:51 AM
That's brilliant. X

Suzi
09-12-20, 11:22 AM
Woohoo!! Well done lovely!

Mira
09-12-20, 12:38 PM
Thats so good to hear. You must be so pleased yourself as well.

Flo
09-12-20, 04:11 PM
Great stuff!(clap)

Paula
10-12-20, 07:20 AM
Typical. I’m avoiding seeing anybody to protect myself from the most contagious virus on the planet. And I manage to pick up...... a common cold. I actually took myself off to bed at 8.30 yesterday! *ah-choooooo*

Suzi
10-12-20, 08:27 AM
(rofl) *Ducks for cover.... *passes tissues and lemsip.

Jaquaia
10-12-20, 08:46 AM
Sod's law! (giggle)

Stella180
10-12-20, 09:17 AM
So what you are saying is that by trying to avoid a Corona virus you caught a Corona virus. Hope you feel better soon.

Paula
10-12-20, 09:40 AM
Stella, yep! Si’s response when I told him I was aching..... ‘keep taking the drugs’ :/

Stella180
10-12-20, 09:48 AM
You have such a caring hubby lol

Paula
10-12-20, 10:14 AM
He’s great, isn’t he? ...

Strugglingmum
10-12-20, 10:20 AM
Hope you feel better soon. X

Suzi
10-12-20, 11:13 AM
No breakfast in bed? Special tissues? Homemade soup?

Paula
10-12-20, 11:18 AM
No breakfast in bed? Special tissues? Homemade soup?

Nope. He’s too excited about the solid oak filing cabinet that arrived this morning (at 7am when he was still in the shower and I was in my dressing gown!)

Jaquaia
10-12-20, 11:21 AM
Might need the special tissues after all then... (angel)

Suzi
10-12-20, 11:54 AM
That sounds beautiful... I love oak!

Stella180
10-12-20, 11:56 AM
Might need the special tissues after all then... (angel)

Pervert (rofl)

Paula
10-12-20, 12:23 PM
It’s for the study. We’re also having a new desk and a cupboard delivered in the same range over the next couple of weeks. I’m also suggesting it’d be lovely to have the new living room furniture from the same range. But we’re looking at doing the en suite next...

Suzi
10-12-20, 02:12 PM
Sounds like fun doing the designing and stuff!

Paula
10-12-20, 03:46 PM
Yeeeees, but I think Si’s got a different idea to ‘doing up the en-suite’ than I do .....

Suzi
10-12-20, 04:05 PM
ROFL (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

Paula
12-12-20, 04:23 PM
This cold can do one. I’ve lost my voice now (Si is very happy ;))

Angie
12-12-20, 04:53 PM
Send texts lol

Suzi
12-12-20, 05:13 PM
Oh no! Olbus oil, lemsip and a little bell for him to be alerted to your every whim...

Strugglingmum
12-12-20, 05:23 PM
Honey and lemon. X

Stella180
12-12-20, 05:34 PM
Peace and quiet lol

Paula
12-12-20, 05:38 PM
Cheeky mare!

magie06
13-12-20, 07:37 PM
How are you feeling?

Suzi
13-12-20, 09:14 PM
Are you feeling better?

Paula
13-12-20, 09:37 PM
Not really, my throat is unbelievably sore

Stella180
13-12-20, 09:41 PM
Still silent?

Strugglingmum
13-12-20, 11:18 PM
(panda)

Flo
14-12-20, 06:36 AM
Poor you. Have you tried Dequadin lozenges? Zoe gets bouts of tonsilitis and she swears by them.

Paula
14-12-20, 07:28 AM
Thanks for that, Flo

Suzi
14-12-20, 08:45 AM
How are you this morning Princess Sparkles?

Paula
14-12-20, 09:44 AM
Not great, voice is intermittent and I woke Si up in the early hours, in tears cos I had earache. So it’s a duvet day

Strugglingmum
14-12-20, 09:52 AM
Poor you. Definitely a duvet day. X

Jaquaia
14-12-20, 09:53 AM
Lots and lots of rest. Do you need anything to help the earache? Hope you feel better soon (panda)

Paula
14-12-20, 10:05 AM
Just rest and painkillers

Flo
14-12-20, 10:24 AM
Earache is so painful...I feel for you love. any chance you can get it looked at? Might be an ear infection. Ears are serious things.(panda)

Suzi
14-12-20, 11:14 AM
Aww hunni... Make sure you rest lots and get waited on...

Paula
14-12-20, 11:53 AM
I don’t think there’s much point seeing a doctor - they’ll just tell me it’s a virus, they can’t do anything and it’ll pass, so rest and painkillers.....

Suzi
14-12-20, 03:28 PM
Still resting?

Paula
14-12-20, 05:28 PM
Yeap...

Suzi
14-12-20, 08:05 PM
Still not feeling any better?

Paula
14-12-20, 09:09 PM
Actually, this evening I am feeling better - thankfully cos I’m having my Christmas nails done tomorrow and I really didn’t want to cancel ;). And I had some ciabatta - wow! bread tastes good when you’ve been on a diet for 9 months!

Suzi
15-12-20, 08:47 AM
Hooray for feeling better! How are you this morning?

Paula
15-12-20, 09:10 AM
Lots better. And I had a good night on the machine, so not exhausted for the first time in forever :) So, nails are happening! I’m thinking white, red and glitter (party)

Jaquaia
15-12-20, 10:04 AM
It's nearly Christmas! There HAS to be glitter!!!

Suzi
15-12-20, 10:26 AM
That sounds awesome!

Stella180
15-12-20, 10:58 AM
Not red and green?

Paula
15-12-20, 11:49 AM
Green? On my nails???

Stella180
15-12-20, 11:59 AM
It’s Chriiiiiiiistmaaaaaas!!!!

Flo
15-12-20, 02:03 PM
Electric blue with silver glitter!

Suzi
15-12-20, 02:18 PM
So what have you had?

Paula
15-12-20, 07:29 PM
Rubbish photo but you get the picture ;)

https://i.ibb.co/42N9Y0V/AFC54-FAF-26-A7-432-F-BB12-9-E31-E9-CC790-F.jpg (https://ibb.co/f90BnTx)

Suzi
15-12-20, 07:58 PM
Very pretty!

Strugglingmum
15-12-20, 09:03 PM
Lovely

Suzi
17-12-20, 07:27 AM
Yo Sparkles, how are you doing today? Are you feeling better?

Paula
17-12-20, 08:31 AM
Yeah, I’m good, feeling loads better. Si and I will be having a really exciting day and sorting out/chucking all our paperwork in our new filing cabinet ;). We’ve been putting it off but it has to be done ......

Jaquaia
17-12-20, 09:11 AM
Careful! The excitement may be too much for you! (giggle)

Paula
17-12-20, 09:35 AM
Don’t worry, my inhaler will be by my side at all times, and I’ve got smelling salts in case of the ‘vapours’ ;)

Strugglingmum
17-12-20, 10:03 AM
At least you are doing it together. It normally gets left to me and I hate it!!

Suzi
17-12-20, 11:03 AM
It's me who does all of ours!

I hope you're taking breaks love!

Paula
17-12-20, 12:56 PM
I think Si is trying to keep busy (giggle). It’s been tough - I came across my divorce papers, photos of Nala’s injuries and all my PiP/ESA paperwork.

Flo
17-12-20, 01:11 PM
My divorce papers alone would fill our filing cabinet!!(rofl)

Suzi
17-12-20, 02:23 PM
(panda) (panda) Paula...

Flo... (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

Paula
17-12-20, 03:30 PM
You know what’s weird? Si witnessed my ex’s signature on the transfer of house deeds (rofl)

Flo
17-12-20, 04:48 PM
Hahaha!! I had to do a double take there Paula...for a few seconds I thought you said: Si forged my ex's signature on the transfer of our house deeds!!(rofl) I really must start upping my dose of Sanatogen!!

Angie
17-12-20, 04:51 PM
(rofl) Flo

Paula
17-12-20, 06:02 PM
(giggle)

Suzi
17-12-20, 06:45 PM
Hahaha!! I had to do a double take there Paula...for a few seconds I thought you said: Si forged my ex's signature on the transfer of our house deeds!!(rofl) I really must start upping my dose of Sanatogen!!
(rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

Flo
17-12-20, 07:25 PM
Snot funny!!...it's serious!!(rofl)

Paula
18-12-20, 10:03 PM
Yay!! I’ve booked a date for myself and Si! We’re going to a drive in cinema on Boxing Day to see Wonder Woman 1984 :) it’s almost like a proper date (party)

Stella180
18-12-20, 10:13 PM
I wanted to go see that on Wednesday after my PiP assessment as a treat for getting through it but I had no one to go with. We’ve had to wait so long for it to finally hit the big screen. I like the idea of a drive in date night. Sounds awesome. When are you going?

Paula
18-12-20, 10:31 PM
Boxing day

Stella180
18-12-20, 11:02 PM
Lovely. I’m a little bit jealous.

Suzi
19-12-20, 09:58 AM
That's awesome! Well done!

Flo
19-12-20, 11:49 AM
How romantic!!.....don't forget the popcorn!

Paula
19-12-20, 02:06 PM
I was thinking of taking a packed dinner :)

Paula
19-12-20, 09:08 PM
Katie’s in tier 4, which means we won’t see her at all over Christmas or for her birthday

Jaquaia
19-12-20, 09:41 PM
That sucks. I'm so sorry (panda)

Suzi
19-12-20, 10:20 PM
Where is Katie? We're in tier 4 too. I'm sorry for you love.

Strugglingmum
19-12-20, 10:28 PM
Yip things are getting tougher, but with the new strain better to be safe but really hard not to see our loved ones.

Paula
19-12-20, 10:38 PM
Berkshire.

In 23 years, I have never been apart from my baby at Christmas or her birthday

Mira
19-12-20, 11:04 PM
Thats terrible news (panda)

Suzi
20-12-20, 11:40 AM
How are you holding up love? I know it's going to be really tough... It's not the same, but can you face time or something?

Paula
20-12-20, 11:54 AM
We will FaceTime. I’m ok, really sad but it’s what needs to be, particularly if this new variant is as infectious as they think. I’ve arranged for a birthday cake, with party blowers, hats and prosecco to be sent to her so at least she’ll have something celebratory for the day. I was going to really decorate the house for her but hey ho. Dom’s family don’t really do celebrations - his last birthday he was really shocked that we’d gone all out for him...

Suzi
20-12-20, 12:02 PM
Aww, that's sad for Dom, but lovely for Katie! You're right it is what needs to happen, doesn't mean you can't be sad about it love.

Angie
20-12-20, 02:17 PM
You could still really decorate the house sweetie as if your facetiming she will see it, its a bit of familiarity for her and you, but I know its sad that you cant see each other xx

Paula
20-12-20, 05:45 PM
Ah, as the Christmas decorations will still be up, I’m not sure more decorations will have the impact over FaceTime that it will irl. Still, Dom’s parents have given her free reign over Christmas decorations there today, so that’s cheered her up

Suzi
20-12-20, 06:12 PM
They won't know what's hit them! :)

Paula
20-12-20, 08:29 PM
No :)!

Suzi
20-12-20, 09:31 PM
(rofl) (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

Angie
20-12-20, 10:18 PM
(rofl)

Flo
21-12-20, 05:57 AM
Sounds a bit alarming this free reign bit! Is she the 'go big or go home' type then?......will we be able to see it from space?!!(rofl)

Paula
21-12-20, 07:51 AM
She’s very tasteful, but loves the sparkles even more than i do (rofl)

Suzi
21-12-20, 07:59 AM
Wow, so does that make you Queen Sparkles and her Princess Sparkles?

Paula
21-12-20, 09:09 AM
Hmm I suppose, but I do like being a princess (giggle)

Suzi
21-12-20, 09:47 AM
Maybe you can be a Princess and she can be Princess in Waiting (rofl) (rofl) (rofl)

Angie
21-12-20, 11:19 AM
(rofl)

Paula
21-12-20, 08:07 PM
Oh crap. We’ve just found out that my aunt (mum of Luke with cancer) has been diagnosed with Parkinson’s ......

Suzi
21-12-20, 08:57 PM
Oh love, I'm so sorry....

Knowle
21-12-20, 09:05 PM
Really sorry to hear that Paula ...

Suzi
22-12-20, 09:36 AM
How are you doing love?

Paula
22-12-20, 10:08 AM
Angry. I love the NHS and they’re doing an awesome job but...... Helen was told by a letter, with no opportunity to ask anyone about treatment, prognosis etc. She hasn’t even yet got a consultant appointment booked. And she’s one of their own - only recently retired from a senior nursing role in the NHS.

Jaquaia
22-12-20, 10:58 AM
That's no way to find out

Suzi
22-12-20, 11:23 AM
Ouch! That's really, really bad....

Angie
22-12-20, 11:50 AM
How have they diagnosed her if she hasnt seen or spoken to a specialist? I'm so sorry hunni x

Strugglingmum
22-12-20, 12:02 PM
That's heartbreaking Paula, so sorry. (panda)

Paula
22-12-20, 12:50 PM
How have they diagnosed her if she hasnt seen or spoken to a specialist? I'm so sorry hunni x

She had a brain scan with radioactive dye

Angie
22-12-20, 12:59 PM
Ahhh right with you.

Knowle
22-12-20, 11:20 PM
Angry. I love the NHS and they’re doing an awesome job but...... Helen was told by a letter, with no opportunity to ask anyone about treatment, prognosis etc. She hasn’t even yet got a consultant appointment booked. And she’s one of their own - only recently retired from a senior nursing role in the NHS.

Sorry to hear of that - it sounds like it has just compounded an already horrible situation.

Flo
23-12-20, 05:57 AM
That's just not good enough is it bless her. So sorry to hear that.

Suzi
23-12-20, 10:04 AM
How are you doing Princess?

Paula
23-12-20, 12:27 PM
I’m ok, just about to watch the Muppets Christmas Carol :)

Strugglingmum
23-12-20, 12:37 PM
Love it. Enjoy

Stella180
23-12-20, 12:49 PM
Heatwave! This is my island in the sun lol

Suzi
23-12-20, 01:50 PM
I've already watched that one with Fern! We do it together every year!

Paula
23-12-20, 02:33 PM
(rofl)

Paula
23-12-20, 06:34 PM
Watching Being Bridget Jones - my oh my, Hugh Grant has got better with age ...

Suzi
23-12-20, 07:00 PM
(rofl) (rofl) Enjoy.... (He's also quite funny on twitter too)

Stella180
23-12-20, 07:24 PM
Never saw the attraction with Hugh Grant.

Knowle
23-12-20, 07:54 PM
Watching Being Bridget Jones - my oh my, Hugh Grant has got better with age ...

I am planning on watching "The Undoing" through Now TV in the coming days - have you watched this?

Stella180
23-12-20, 08:14 PM
I liked the look of that but not got round to it yet. Still catching up on the first season of The Discovery of Witches before the new season starts in January.

Knowle
23-12-20, 08:28 PM
I hope you are enjoying that Stella.

What is your favourite series of all time? Mine is The X-Files.

Paula
23-12-20, 11:26 PM
I am planning on watching "The Undoing" through Now TV in the coming days - have you watched this?

I was wondering how you got to that via Bridget Jones, then realised Hugh Grant is in it! No, I’m not great with psychological thrillers in tv series - I’m fine with films but I can’t take the intensity from episode to episode itms

Flo
24-12-20, 06:17 AM
I must need my head exmined....I watched The Revenant with Leonardo di Caprio yesterday evening...never seen so much gore in my life but felt compelled to watch it through to the end! Wish I'd watched The Muppets now!

Suzi
24-12-20, 08:03 AM
Morning Princess, how are you doing?

Paula
24-12-20, 08:58 AM
I must need my head exmined....I watched The Revenant with Leonardo di Caprio yesterday evening...never seen so much gore in my life but felt compelled to watch it through to the end! Wish I'd watched The Muppets now!

I managed about 15 mins of the Revenant......

I’m good, thanks Suzi, apart from Jax managing to escape having 2 paws cleaned after coming in from the garden - so have been trailing him through the house cleaning up mud..... oh, and I’ve got heartburn - serves me right for having a gin on a Wednesday lol

Stella180
24-12-20, 09:23 AM
Naughty Jax. Still you gotta love em.

Suzi
24-12-20, 11:12 AM
(rofl) My kitchen floor looks like a swamp monster has been through it.... Nope, just Crash mostly...

Hope the heartburn lifts soon love.

Paula
26-12-20, 11:36 AM
Not feeling great today, disturbed night so am exhausted. Good job I’ve got nothing needs doing today

Angie
26-12-20, 11:42 AM
Rest and pace today sweetie its Boxing day so anything can wait x

Suzi
26-12-20, 12:09 PM
What caused the disturbed night? Are you OK? Need to talk?

Paula
26-12-20, 04:54 PM
Combination of the mask and no routine throwing out my timing on my meds yesterday

Jaquaia
26-12-20, 05:08 PM
Hopefully a day or two will get you back on track (panda)

Suzi
26-12-20, 08:24 PM
Oh bugger! I've messed up my pregabalin a couple of days in a row and it's thrown me lots. Are you resting? How did zooming Katie go? Did you have a good day yesterday?

Paula
26-12-20, 10:15 PM
Zooming wasn’t ideal but better than nothing. I talked to her separately as well. Depending on the weather, now we’re both in tier 4 she may come round to go for a walk tomorrow.

Yesterday was quiet but Jess spent most of the day with us and we played games - I didn’t win once..... my parents got me a cross stitch kit of a photo of Jax and Demi, so I might give that a go tomorrow, or read the book Jess bought me, not sure yet :)

Suzi
26-12-20, 10:24 PM
What a lovely gift!

What book did you get?
I'm glad you got to speak to Katie, and although I wish noone else was in tier 4, I'm glad it means that you could see Katie in person.

Strugglingmum
26-12-20, 10:45 PM
Aw really hope you get to see Katie. X

Flo
27-12-20, 06:00 AM
What would we do without zoom and facetime.....and know what you mean about being out of routine. I want to get back to normal now...it's tipping down outside. If it clears I can go for a walk later. Fingers crossed you get to see Kate.

Suzi
27-12-20, 10:44 AM
How are you today love?

Paula
27-12-20, 11:39 AM
The book is called Hamnet and is Waterstones 2020 book of the year. It’s a fictionalised account of Shakespeare’s family. Pretty good so far.

I’m ok, I slept til 9:45, which is rare! Storm’s blown itself out too and it’s sunny so hopefully I’ll see Katie later. :)

Jaquaia
27-12-20, 11:42 AM
Oooh! People have raved about that in the book group I'm in!

Suzi
27-12-20, 12:07 PM
OO Sounds like a great book! Hooray for seeing Katie!

Strugglingmum
27-12-20, 12:09 PM
Sounds good.

Paula
29-12-20, 01:13 PM
My hands in flare today, I was hoping to start my new cross stitch but that ain’t happening! Study it is (thank God the CRPS isn’t in my left, dominant, hand ;))

Stella180
29-12-20, 02:40 PM
Weirdo.

Paula
29-12-20, 03:36 PM
What for??

Stella180
29-12-20, 04:04 PM
Well, there could be a seriously long list to that question lol

On this occasion I mean you being a lefty. It’s called the right hand for a reason. Just saying lol

Paula
29-12-20, 05:10 PM
Why is being left handed the last ‘acceptable’ prejudice? ;)

Stella180
29-12-20, 05:38 PM
You know I’m kidding. However seeing left handed people writing really does make me uncomfortable. I just can’t look. Maybe I’m weird? Oh who am I kidding, of course I’m weird. All the best people are lol

Jaquaia
29-12-20, 05:49 PM
T is left handed too!

Paula
29-12-20, 05:54 PM
When I was 5 yo, my infant school teacher refused to accept that I was left handed. She tried to make me write right handed, when I couldn’t she used to make me stand in the corner and told my parents I was stubborn and would never amount to anything. What is almost more shocking is the school wouldn’t do anything about it and the only way mum and dad could help me was by sending me to a private school, which they couldn’t afford, for the next 2 years.....

Stella180
29-12-20, 06:21 PM
That is shocking! Fair play to your parents for getting you away from that evil teacher.

Flo
29-12-20, 06:29 PM
Flipping archaic isn't it? I had that problem with Jay...not left handed but his lovely female teacher in Primary school sensed that he might be dyslexic and mentioned this to the Head who was a prat! He said that dyslexia didn't exist! My mum's next door neighbour happened to teach kids and was trained in reversing dyslexia - apparently after the age of 11 it's hard to reverse as the brain won't allow the change - so mum took him next door and he spent twice a week with her for a few months and all ended up fine. Thank God for modern teaching!

Suzi
29-12-20, 09:29 PM
I can't tell you the horrific teachers we've encountered esp since being parents....

How did the study go?

Jaquaia
29-12-20, 09:50 PM
T's teacher last year wouldn't believe he was left-handed, it was only towards the end of the year that she started giving him left-handed handwriting sheets. This years teacher is brilliant, she's left-handed herself and when they stopped doing left-handed handwriting sheets she started hand-writing them herself.

Flo, J has dyslexia. It wasn't picked up on until his final year at uni.

Paula
29-12-20, 10:13 PM
What’s left handed handwriting sheets?

Study went well, I’ve pretty much caught up - only 7 units to do before exams in February :)

Jaquaia
29-12-20, 10:22 PM
The word they need to practice writing in cursive is on the right side of the sheet instead of the left, it means their hand doesn't cover it as they write. I'll take a photo when he next gets homework.

Suzi
29-12-20, 10:54 PM
Marc and Fern are both dyslexic and ambidextrous!

Well done Paula. How big are the sections?

Angie
30-12-20, 09:50 AM
I'm another left hander so was my father, my eldest is left handed her dad was and my youngest grandfather is left handed.

Stella180
30-12-20, 09:54 AM
That’s a lot of lefties.

Angie
30-12-20, 09:56 AM
Yup lol its fun writing backwards letters words aswell people are like huh how do you do that

Paula
30-12-20, 11:12 AM
Well done Paula. How big are the sections?

Each unit takes me approx 3 sessions


The word they need to practice writing in cursive is on the right side of the sheet instead of the left, it means their hand doesn't cover it as they write. I'll take a photo when he next gets homework.

Back in the 70s we never had anything to help like that - no left handed scissors, fountain pens (yes, I had to write with fountain pens) etc. We just had to muddle through. My nephew is left handed and mum is only now beginning to realise how much I had to adjust

Stella180
30-12-20, 11:44 AM
Out of curiosity are there are things you do right handed? A friend of mine is a leftie but plays darts right handed and my ex could only play golf with right handed clubs.

Strugglingmum
30-12-20, 11:52 AM
My husband writes right-handed but plays golf left-handed

Jaquaia
30-12-20, 03:44 PM
I'm right-handed but eat and knit left-handed!