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    She said she can relate to me & its just refreshing I guess . I don't understand how every1 around me like my peer group seem so care-free. What are they doing that I'm not? Why am I so emotionally imbalanced in contrast?. Sure they maybe masking it better, but u can still tell that they've got it together socially. For them this is the best time of the year, partying, frolicking u name it. For me this is the absolute worst. It only empathises my loneliness & how another year of misery has passed me by..
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    I really think that you need to be working on finding ways to meet new people and to get out more itms?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I asked my counsellor "Is their any way to get out of this, when u've been this low for so long". She said "Yes of course!". Somehow I don't believe her..

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    There is, she's right
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    There really is.
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    Just believe her, hang on to that straw, focus on to that spot of light in the distance, never give up hope and you'll get there.
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    Ye I think having somethin to strive towards is really important. I have nothin to look forward to & that's whats kept me stagnant. I need to learn how to 'rise above' my vile overbearing brother. Him & his friends are pot-smoking parasites that talk in gangsta slang. It shouldn't affect me but it does because I have to listen to them non-stop.

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    I think that your Mum needs to step in with him...
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    I've heard people say that u need to be spiritual & have a plant based diet to get u through this. I'm not religious, I don't meditate & I eat junk like most people (but I also eat fruit). Is a typical lifestyle sufficient to get u through it I wonder

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    Having a healthy lifestyle does help, of course, but, no, I don't believe it's the answer to depression - the illness is far more complicated than that
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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