It was 1 particular girl callin me weird, it was basically a girl who shared my bed a while back (nothin happened). I was being civil with her & she said "R u tryin to get in with me? Ur not my type". I replied "Don't flatter urself love ur not my type either!". In regards to comin out my shell, well I get these comments from every1. My auntie loves to tell me that I need to sort my life out. I only went round for the buffet tryin to mind my own business..
For goodness sakes get away from these people. I wonder if you've ever been in polite society!
Do you have anyone in any part of your life who doesn't treat you badly?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
my mum.. the rest of my family aren't necessarily bad to me, they just want me to be independent. They tell me to 'get out of that bloody room & live life'. I just feel overwhelmed on how to go about changing my life.Originally Posted by Suzi
Do you want to move out?
Get out there, meet new people and change the people in your life..
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
ur right suzi, there comes a time where u just have to say 'this ain't workin'. Unfortunately I can't quit my job because i'd lose £80 from my £130 total weekly income. I ain't ready to move out. Another thing is that because I'm so anti-social that I'm playin catch-up with every1 else who hv been socialisin for years. It could take years & years until I'm socially successful.
One thing at a time then. A lot of friends are made at work, so perhaps changing jobs could deal with your dislike for your job, and help you begin to socialise?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
You don't need to be sociable to get another job. You need to be working more than 1-2 days a week. Perhaps you could sign up with a temp agency and get some experience of working in offices?
I completely agree. You could be doing something very different, but you need to find your way out of your job...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
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