Never EVER go to someone's house if you don't know them, its really really dangerous, it could have been a man, you could have been mugged, all sorts could've happened. The worst that happened this time is that your pride was dented. Be careful!!!!
Never EVER go to someone's house if you don't know them, its really really dangerous, it could have been a man, you could have been mugged, all sorts could've happened. The worst that happened this time is that your pride was dented. Be careful!!!!
Suzi (20-06-15)
Rose is right. You HAVE to think about protecting yourself.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I'll be honest she was flirtin with me on the phone so I thought she seemed like a nice girl..Originally Posted by Paula
I spoke to her prior to ease some of the risk. Her & her friend who was rather overweight were really loud & bolshy, bragging how they like black men & dancing to reggae dance. They asked me why I was so quiet as I sipped my can of fruit cider like an abandoned child in the corner. This is why I have a perception of women because I've had so many disappointing experiences like this..
Of course it was disappointing, a random girl you didn't know invited you to her house. Have more respect for yourself and please don't put yourself in such danger again!!
I'll be honest rose its all do with lust. The slightest bit of interest someone shows in me I feel I have to grab it with both hands. Getting a girl is like the lottery with my anxiety. She weren't even that fit either but beggars can't be choosers as they say..
With this attitude you never will. I could say much more here but its not worth the energy. Seems like nothing will change regarding that topic.
Suzi (25-06-15)
Of course it was lust. But following your dick is going to get you into trouble. There are people out there who specialise in luring people to their houses in order to rob them, or worse. If it seems too good to be true....it is. I feel like no one has spent time educating you about the world. I hope that doesn't sound harsh.
Suzi (25-06-15)
Decent girls (and they're out there) do not flirt with someone on the phone and then get them to come to their house so you must have known what type of situation you were going into. The fact is you have no respect for women. And no respect for yourself. Until those change you're never going to be in a relationship, because no decent girl is going to be interested.
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Suzi (25-06-15)
If you just want sex then go and pay for a prostitute.
Nope, not down to your anxiety. It's down to you not going out and not having respect for yourself or for the females you encounter.Getting a girl is like the lottery with my anxiety.
That's a HORRIBLE comment. I can tell you that I am no where near "fit" but I'm much too good for someone with that attitude.She weren't even that fit either but beggars can't be choosers as they say..
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Paula (25-06-15),Samantha340 (25-06-15)
I told her that she seems like a good mum & asked her lots of questions how she copes funding thm etc. I gave her a lot of respect despite being blanked by her & her friend all night. I even said thanks for the drink & clearly told her I'm not after 1 thing. U'll be surprised to see how respectful I actually am, I'm just really fed up with never havin a gf. I'm in a desperate situation with this loneliness & havin no friends..
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