I think that maybe you should focus on getting you better, before you are too busy "playing the game"...
I think that maybe you should focus on getting you better, before you are too busy "playing the game"...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I've not assumed all men are game players, ever. I was raised by a gentleman, and am married to a gentleman. My 17 yo daughter has a lot of male friends, who will always ensure the girls in their group are walked home, and treat them with respect. The one constant with these men, young or old, is that they don't objectify the women they meet
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
If I was all these things ur makin out would I have had a deep conversation with a girl about her spine disorder? or waited in a guys dingy flat till the early hours with my cousin to ensure her safety?. My brothers gf says I'm like her big brother because she feels safe around me. Just because I lack the confidence of those men paula doesnt mean I think with my d***. I genuinely care & want a soulmate
We aren't making out that you are anything lovely, we are just saying that not all men are as your portray them. Not all women are game players either.. You will find someone, but you do need to work on getting you and your Mum safe from your brother and getting yourself a job that you like and working on your own self esteem.
I am quite sure that you are one of the "good guys", but sometimes you come across quite sleazy in your attitude towards women and young men your age... I know it's hard, but try not to judge by your brother and his gf....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Are we free to post on here as much as we like?. I know its ur duty of care as administrators but I'm still wary that u must be sick of listening to peoples issues. I try to articulate my struggles as best I can because I know theres people out there who are exactly like me. My mums friend said the reason im like this is because I'm stuck in my room watchin porn lol.. I've gotta wait till Thurs now to get my citalopram which is annoyin because its like I'm startin again after a full week out my system..
Hi SA89 you are free to post how you feel without offending or using obscene language that would offend people. I have had experience of citalopram and it is not an over night cure. You have to be patient and work with your Doctors. i would not watch porn as it can have a detrimental affect on how you think. There are a lot of people on here who can help you but you have to stop generalizing. As suzi said "You will find someone" but i think you need to focus on YOu first.
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Suzi (19-05-15)
You are free to post as much as you like, and it's not our duty to post or listen, we post and listen and do our best to support each and every member here because we care and we want to.Originally Posted by SA89
Are we free to post on here as much as we like?. I know its ur duty of care as administrators but I'm still wary that u must be sick of listening to peoples issues. I try to articulate my struggles as best I can because I know theres people out there who are exactly like me. My mums friend said the reason im like this is because I'm stuck in my room watchin porn lol
As for your mum's friend how on eath do they know what you do in the privacy of your own room? which is your choice.
You really do have to order your repeat prescriptions so that you get them before you run out
If you can’t fly, then run, if you can’t run, then walk, if you can’t walk, then crawl, but by all means keep moving.
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I'm just in a toxic environment at the moment guys with my brother. I swear I'm gonna end up snappin & t****** this b******. I don't know how to fight so I'm not sure how it would go. Probably end with him pullin out the kitchen knife like last time..
I think you need a very frank and honest chat with your mum about what you both agree is acceptable from your brother and what is not. He might be 18 but only just, he is a child really, he needs some very firm parenting and guidance.
If you are afraid of him and he continues to misbehave then maybe he needs to move out.
Its sad really that as a 25 yr old man, a teenager angers me this much. I need to really focus on myself as u guys have suggested because I'm riddled with so much insecurities. I don't love myself at all, why should I if I've never experienced love in any form, not even true family love.
My mums no use rose (shes also called rose), every1 panders towards him & gives this vile abusive piece of s*** the attention he wants. For some reason people EVEN like him, what f***** planet am I acrually on here!?
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