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    well its not happenin anyway, nothin new there. I left it a day without textin on facebook & asked her earlier whats she doin on weekend. No response. She's even 'seen' it. I met my brothers gf mate today & she said she liked my t-shirt but was very shy & left without givin me her facebook. I'd rather people just be up-front, can't be doin with all this 'actin coy' business..

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    Only a day? Give her a chance!
    And the other girl really might have been shy! Just because she liked your t-shirt, it doesn't mean she has to be your mate on facebook!
    Sometimes I wonder about how you perceive other people, you seem to be quite angry and think everyone is messing you around.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rose View Post
    Only a day? Give her a chance!
    And the other girl really might have been shy! Just because she liked your t-shirt, it doesn't mean she has to be your mate on facebook!
    Sometimes I wonder about how you perceive other people, you seem to be quite angry and think everyone is messing you around.
    That shy girl has a bf anyway & she was starin at me awkward when I asked her about college etc. I can't help my awkward demeanor, its just not in line with the 'cool kids' who love to smoke pot & twerk to reggae dance. I'm into beatles for instance, doesn't really gel . My hooded thug tattooed brother is perfect for them because younger girls love a man with 'swag'. A thug makes them feel protected. I'm always told i'm 'a good lad', unfortunately its got me nowhere..

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    Then why we're expecting her to give you her fb details when she has a boyfriend? And I agree with Rose, you seem to think the world's against you. I wonder whether it's that anger that puts women off, not your height
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    You are 25. You can listen to the Beatles, to Reggae, to Classic FM if you want, you don't need to worry about being 'cool', stop worrying about what your teenage brother is up to, or trying to flirt with his teenage female friends, who really are too young for you! When I was 18, my mate's boyfriend's 25 year old brother wouldn't have even known I existed, let alone been trying to add me on facebook. Not all girls are relentless teases, in fact very few of them are. Please concentrate on trying to build your own social group and getting yourself a job so you can move out of home and make your own life.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    Then why we're expecting her to give you her fb details when she has a boyfriend? And I agree with Rose, you seem to think the world's against you. I wonder whether it's that anger that puts women off, not your height
    That was before I knew. She has about a million facebook likes, a loser like myself doesn't stand a chance with such royalty. I'm never angry to any1, I just vent on here thats all. Surely u can understand how frustrating it is never havin a relationship or friends even. Its much different for u women because u have options presented to u where as men compete like rabid dogs.

    Ur perception differs greatly. I'm tryin to develop myself instead of thinkin about women but its really challengin. I'm aware how un-healthy it is to have these desires play on my mind (porn doesn't help either). Thats why I'm tryin to channel that energy into more creative means like my voluntary for instance.

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    Erm, porn isn't going to help you to not feel lonely, or to help you feel better about yourself though.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Quote Originally Posted by rose View Post
    stop worrying about what your teenage brother is up to
    its hard rose when he swans around the house half naked with his beautiful gf blaring his s***** grime actin the 'bad man'. He smokes weed 24/7, there's no escapin him. Oh & his gf loves to remind him & every1 how 'sexy' he is ..

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    I think that his GF needs her head read!

    Look love. To put it bluntly if you are going to continually compare yourself to everyone else you are going to come off badly - either because you think you are better than they are or that they are better than you - either isn't particularly attractive. If you want to have a relationship then that's fine, but you have to push past all your comfort zones and get out there and meet different people. If you want to meet a young lady who is different to those your brother appears to be attracting then get out to different places than he would frequent..
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Quote Originally Posted by SA89 View Post
    its hard rose when he swans around the house half naked with his beautiful gf blaring his s***** grime actin the 'bad man'. He smokes weed 24/7, there's no escapin him. Oh & his gf loves to remind him & every1 how 'sexy' he is ..
    While it's no excuse, they're both teenagers and it's a known fact that teenagers, particularly boys, are usually idiots.
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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