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    ye my doctor changed them, I'm waitin for cognitive therapy. I feel that because I'm not loud & big like the others that I can't compete. They sing a lot in public because they think that somehow gives them a 'great personality'. I hate this sexually driven society so much, everyone is so needy its bloody ridiculous. I really want to break free from this spell that women subconsciously have over me. Its not healthy for the mind to be thinkin about sex all the time. Its that stressful that I can't even go about my day unless I've relieved my thoughts from such erotic fantasies ..

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    My husband wasn't loud when I met him and fell in love with him.... It's not all sexually driven at all. I think that's just your perception of it.
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    I don't think I know anyone who's sexually driven and needy as you're describing - not since I was surrounded by hormonal teenage boys at school. And singing in public is fun, I sing all the time. And, believe me, it's not because I want people to think I have a great personality - it just feels me with joy. Suzi's right, your perception of other people seems to be somewhat distorted .....
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    well can u blame me, my workplace has tainted this perception, every week for 5 years feelin like ur at a party where ur not wanted.. I'm friendly to every1 at work yet I'm treated like an outsider. I think bein dark skinned has somewhat to do with it because they kinda categorize me in the 'foreigner clique'. I treat every1 equal, its no coincidence I get on with the introverts the most. They seem the most caring, interestin people from my experience. The majority are self-absorbed & tend to cater to the 'jack the lad' stereotype. Society doesn't gel with 'indifference' as I've said many times. Social Anxiety & depression is indifferent to the percieved 'norm'.

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    You think it's because of the colour of your skin?
    If your workplace is so bad then are you continuing to look for something else?
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    I've got out more this week & socialised & feel a bit better for it (well in the garden at least ..). Today though has been a bit controversial because my brother hit his gf & strangled her. I've told every1 how much I hate him & how he creates a bad atmosphere when we're all together. I made him burst in2 tears with a comment about his dad & now every1 feels sorry for him again.. I'm the only 1 who calls his behaviour out but my mum always gives in2 him despite what he does. His gf is a nice person yet he hits her, its messed up ..

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    Is she still in the house? Have you talked to her about it?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    Is she still in the house? Have you talked to her about it?
    ye she stays over every day putting up with his aggression. He's addicted to weed & they both have ADHD. Its his 18th soon & I've told my mum I can't celebrate with some1 I simply don't like. I only put up with him because of my mum who loves him. He makes every social gathering really uncomfortable with his thuggish ways.

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    I really hope that she is able to see what is wrong and walks away from him...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
    I really hope that she is able to see what is wrong and walks away from him...
    She's blinded by love suzi, she even says 'I'm really glad I forgave him'. After he's done somethin bad he puts on the waterworks & then everythin is forgotten. Or buys her some flowers.. My mums just as gulluble with him, hes a good manipulator I'll give him that. Like I said previously its not easy livin with him but I'm stuck because I dont wanna move out away from my mum ..

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