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    Don’t worry about being concise, it’s more important that you have someone to talk to. You need to do what’s right for you but sometimes it’s worth thinking about ADs as something that helps support you while you work out what needs to change in your life itms
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Congratulations on the job! When do you start?

    Never feel you have to be more concise if you need to talk, then you need to talk!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    They doing my checks at the moment prior to training. I already completed training in February for my current role which involved safeguarding etc.

    It needs be done again though as its a different care provider. I'm kinda worried about the personal care aspect. It seems rather disgusting..

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    It's not disgusting. You just need to change your mindset - it's about helping someone, you do actually just zone out of it as something that isn't great. It's about providing help, care and dignity.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
    It's not disgusting. You just need to change your mindset - it's about helping someone, you do actually just zone out of it as something that isn't great. It's about providing help, care and dignity.
    I enjoy support work but I've not really done that aspect of it yet. So far my 5 shifts in my bank role have been with non verbal younger people. Its been 2:1 support but I've had periods were i've been left alone. I've done activities like takin them to the park, listening to nursery rhymes etc.

    I'll be ready though for when the time arises & I'm aware it requires a lot of patience & persistence. Btw if I'm going to be workin all day every day, isn't that counter productive to me being more sociable? .

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    Both my husbands I met at work - actually the same work
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    I met Marc whilst I was working too
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    I've never experienced a relationship & I'm 28 now! . I envy couples so much caus they seem free of worry & loneliness. These dating sites are catered towards the shallow & superficial because no one replies to my messages. I ain't bad lookin either, I'm just a bloody recluse lol.

    I was talking about this just then actually with my mums friend. I mentioned how I leave the room if I see a happy couple because it triggers how lonely I feel inside. It did me good to get out of my room at least. I'm not sure if chatting in the kitchen counts as socialising though.

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    Of course it counts!

    I can honestly say that I'm definitely not free of worry or loneliness because I'm married! It really isn't going to make those feelings go away because you have a girlfriend...
    My sister found her current partner on a dating site - they aren't all shallow and superficial.
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    I’m not free of worry or loneliness, or jealousy or a lack of self confidence, or any of those things that we ‘should’ be free of in a relationship. It’s not Through lack of trust with my husband, it’s a lack of confidence that I deserve him, it’s a belief that he’d be better off without me. He proves every day that he loves me and is going nowhere. There’s nothing wrong with our relationship, just with me. But I don’t think I’m on my own there.
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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