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    Quote Originally Posted by Mira View Post
    Hey, Yes great you got out and that you had a breakthrough. But is this the sort of social things you would like to do? I find it hard to believe any good can come from that.
    I've never mixed before with these people as they're completely different to me but I just needed to get out as the weather was nice.

    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    I don’t quite know what to say about all that except, there’s no way in hell I’d have stayed in that environment for more than a millisecond. That’s not healthy socialising, love
    I know but there's not many options in my area in regards to decent people. It's a rough area in Bolton so most of the people here are heads, potheads or on crack. That's exactly why I don't socialise but this was a one off.

    Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
    Erm.... I'm not sure where to start with that.... Sitting outside drinking vodka isn't going to help as you know that alcohol is a depressant.. Hanging around with people who think carrying knives is OK let alone with small children around is, quite frankly, a disaster waiting to happen..
    Also why were you drinking bloody mary's in a shed "with some lads"?
    I'm not even a drinker & haven't had alcohol in a year, except for the half lager last week & the vodka on saturday. I weren't hanging around with the guy with the machetes, he came on the street & started kicking off which was my cue to leave. The shed is more of a mini garden house which looks really nice.

    My aunt invited me round to have a look at the lights around the garden. Her fella's constructed it all for her & he's very chilled. There just happened to be a few lads around, 1 of which had been in the local paper for theft & assualt. I tried a bit of bloody mary which was revolting then left about 1.20am with a fiver missing .

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    Maybe you could have a look outside your immediate area? I'm sure not all of Bolton is that rough...
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    My town is known the length and breadth of the country for having a very, very bad image. That doesn't mean I spend my days and nights in the bad areas. I stick with my own kind and socialize with people I like.

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    Hey lovely. Your thread is over a 100 pages long. Maybe its time to close this one and start a new one?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    I went to another meetup last night, this time it was a quiz night. It was a chilled evening at a cafe/games place. 1 of the older women there was very patronizing. Everytime I spoke she would speak to me in a strict tone for no reason whatsoever. She even berated me for not being into Harry Potter! . I also felt like my suggestions were being ignored at times. I hate it when I speak and then people look away and I'm not acknowledged. A lot of fellow introverts will relate to this. In the company of highly extroverted people it can feel like you're indirectly ostracized. Like they're somehow superior because of the adventurous lifestyles they lead in comparison.

    I've got another 2 scheduled for next Thurs & Fri. I could have stayed out as I was in the mood for a dance but didn't realise my old friend was in town until I got home. Later on, the whole in street walked into my kitchen and sat down in front of my mum smoking weed till after 2am. It's easy to say kick them out but it could have escalated as they were drunk so we tried to keep the peace. They were civil but it was completely disrespectful . I'm not sure about creating a new thread but I guess I could think about it.
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    At 124 pages, this is too long really... Please start a new one and I'll close this one.

    I think your Mum needs to set some ground rules as that behaviour is totally unacceptable.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Suzi View Post
    At 124 pages, this is too long really... Please start a new one and I'll close this one.

    I think your Mum needs to set some ground rules as that behaviour is totally unacceptable.
    Hey feel free to close this suzi, I've created a new thread as this was getting too long. But I'm proud of the interest this thread has generated as it shows people can relate. I'll miss this thread ..

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