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Thread: Fed up of struggling *AB triggers*

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    Boss Lady ;) Suzi's Avatar
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    But you tried to make him stop... It looks much worse on him. You didn't ask him to come into your bed.....
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    I just don't want to stir up any drama with him, if they told me they'd have to tell other people or anything like that. He doesn't seem to remember

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    I don’t know, but I’ve got a strong suspicion he is using that as an excuse. Regardless of whether he remembers or not, sweetheart, what he did was wrong and illegal.
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    I know but I don't want to report it or anything but I don't know, I would maybe like to talk it through with someone

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    You don't have to report it if you don't want to. We get that it's an incredibly hard thing to do. Talking might help though.
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    It's just scary. I don't know what he'd say to me if he knew I'd told people

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    He doesn't need to know you've told people
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    That's what I'm trying to get to the bottom of. If it would be seen as a safeguarding issue....would the therapist have to tell other people?

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    Sweetheart it was a one off. You aren't inviting him in or getting drunk around him often, or being in the position for him to do it again... You are doing what you need to do to safe guard your little boy.
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  10. #180
    He's had similar behaviours when he's been drinking....that's why he stopped drinking for a while....for us to get back on track

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