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Thread: From crisis to hope....I hope!!

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    Sweetie, if I had said I was going for a job having just come back home from being in hospital for 2 months, what would you say?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Hunni, I’m worried about you - you’re really quiet. Can you respond to my PM please…
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Just to let you all know I have spoken to SM and she is OK. She's reduced her social media for a while but she will be popping on when she is ready x
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    So pleased she's ok. Plenty of time to catch up on things.xxx

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    Hey all, sorry for the silence, days crept by and I dintquiterealise it had been a while.
    I'm slowly adjusting to life on the outside...its tough.
    I get anxious easily and there are lots of tears. I'm still also having to adjust to Io having left home and that is still distressing me a lot. I'm a bit of a rollercoaster to be around and I'm still trying to get myself stabilised at home.
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    It’s horribly hard when they leave home (I was all over the place with much less reason than you). Is it that she’s not there, or the circumstances that are upsetting you the most?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Its definitely the circumstances. If she had been packing to go to uni, or buying her first home etc I'd probably have been helping her pack, crying and we would have laughed at me crying. I could tell her I'd miss her without it being an issue etc.
    As Ali says. He has had time to get used to it a bit, it's all fresh to me all over again as I was isolated from ot in hospital
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    It's going to take a while to get used to it. I'm still shocked at the way it happened and it didn't happen to me!
    Are you going with the feelings or trying to busy them away?
    Are you pacing or pushing through?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I end up in tears a lot so I would say I'm going with the feelings!!
    Definitely not even pacing. Motivation has taken a nose dive
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    Oh lovely... What things are you during your day love?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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