Hi Suzi,
Specifics incidents are that I did graduate but feel perhaps8 should have done a further degree. Also I quit Uni twice before that as I didn't like the course and was going out socialising too much. I've had a couple of good jobs which I quit after a few months also due to depression. I feel some shame and guilt about that but I was genuinely mentally unwell.
I was out with my two sisters last night which was OK, but one of them, that I'm trying to cut off, was emotionally abusive and bullying towards me with a couple of comments. After I asked her not to.I feel abused. The reason I went out was that I was seeing both of them. I wouldn't have met the abusive one on her own at the moment.
I just seem incredibly sensitive to any slight she makes and endlessly ruminate.
I think I just have to have a long break from her and clear my head. Just maybe send the odd neutral text.
I'm very socially isolated, have social anxiety and feel really lonely. I don't know what to do. I'm on a caffeine crash too.
I'm sitting here in the dark and I cannot stop ruminating about negative things. I feel awful.
Thank you
Matt