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    Hi, so recently, I been getting abuse from people in my life, it has been nasty, I reported it to the police, and things are still not doing too good, I am mentally unable to fight for what I think needs to be done but always I feel like I should give up. I been abused in my life I'm 21 and I fight every day to stay alive. Some days I go I don't want to be here anymore but some days I say I'm glad I stayed alive. I self harm and it helps me, I am scared though that one day it will end me. I don't want that, I have a life too live but sometimes I can't live it due to getting abused saying my ex is going to hurt me if I go to the police again. Being raped has shown how much hurt is inside of me, I didn't ask for it I did blame myself but I know it was not my fault. Hello I'm Lilly!

    I often find myself crying myself to sleep to see if what's going on in my life is correct unfortunately it is. The mental abuse or emotional attacks is draining me, I feel like the police aren't supporting me, I ring them but then get no response I feel like im going to be abused my whole life.

    My head hurts. Why does everyone blame me ��
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    Princess Sparkles Paula's Avatar
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    Hey, love, just a few rules fyi, we ask that members don’t double post on the same thread within 10 minutes of each other, so I’ve merged your recent posts into one. Also, I’ve moved your post on SM thread to this one as it solely relates to you.

    I’ve also added a trigger warning - nothing to worry about, it’s just to ensure that anybody who might be triggered by what you’re talking about has the option to avoid reading it.

    Have you spoken to your doctor about how this is affecting you? Do you have any support?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    Hey, love, just a few rules fyi, we ask that members don’t double post on the same thread within 10 minutes of each other, so I’ve merged your recent posts into one. Also, I’ve moved your post on SM thread to this one as it solely relates to you.

    I’ve also added a trigger warning - nothing to worry about, it’s just to ensure that anybody who might be triggered by what you’re talking about has the option to avoid reading it.

    Have you spoken to your doctor about how this is affecting you? Do you have any support?
    Hey, sorry - I didn't mean too, what does SM mean? Sorry, for messaging loads I am so sorry. I have, but their busy so I have to wait.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lillyx View Post
    Hey, sorry - I didn't mean too, what does SM mean? Sorry, for messaging loads I am so sorry. I have, but their busy so I have to wait.
    No worries, hunni SM is StrugglingMum, whose thread you were posting on
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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    No worries, hunni SM is StrugglingMum, whose thread you were posting on
    Oh okay

    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    No worries, hunni SM is StrugglingMum, whose thread you were posting on
    Hey sorry, I didn't mean to write on her thread, give me any punishment because I'm sorry. Is it alright if I do make threads though but I'll keep thidnone?
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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    No punishment needed at all! What we tend to ask is posts on similar subjects stay together as then it's easier to follow your story if that makes sense? A few of us have different threads but they tend to he very different!

    You've been through some horrific things. Have you ever considered specialist counselling to help you deal with it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaquaia View Post
    No punishment needed at all! What we tend to ask is posts on similar subjects stay together as then it's easier to follow your story if that makes sense? A few of us have different threads but they tend to he very different!

    You've been through some horrific things. Have you ever considered specialist counselling to help you deal with it?
    I haven't really, is it a good thing? What does it do?

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    I've never had it myself, though I've had it suggested to me. It is counselling that focuses on helping you deal with a specific issue, Cruse is a good example, as it focuses on helping you deal with bereavement. There are agencies out there that can help you try and deal with sexual trauma. The Survivors Trust is one example (www.thesurvivorstrust.org).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jaquaia View Post
    I've never had it myself, though I've had it suggested to me. It is counselling that focuses on helping you deal with a specific issue, Cruse is a good example, as it focuses on helping you deal with bereavement. There are agencies out there that can help you try and deal with sexual trauma. The Survivors Trust is one example (www.thesurvivorstrust.org).
    Thank you! That's so helpful, I find taking about what has happened to me, especially etc is so helpful! So thank you. I'll look into this

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lillyx View Post
    Oh okay



    Hey sorry, I didn't mean to write on her thread, give me any punishment because I'm sorry. Is it alright if I do make threads though but I'll keep thidnone?
    Don’t worry about it, lovely. You’re more than welcome to post on any thread but your comment was specifically about you and makes much more sense on your own thread - hence me moving it.
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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