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    I agree with Flo spontaneity is a good thing saves all the worry and fretting involved in decision making
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    Wish Io a happy birthday from me! An epic time to have a birthday if you ask me
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    I ended up sobbing at the dinner table tonight.
    My husband calmly kept eating his dinner while my daughter looked on awkwardly, realised A wasnt going to hug me and then came and cuddled my head into her while I sobbed like a baby. Poor kid shouldn't have to cope with that. I feel bad for her.
    I'm also really peeved at A.
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    hunni, I’m so sorry..... however, something that’s been thrown at me from Si sometimes is that I talk about wanted to be independent and recognised as strong. Maybe A was coming from that place? Of course, I’m probably completely wrong....
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Marc's done the same to me and left it for the kids to console me. It's not that he doesn't care, more that he's trying not to undermine me or belittle independence... Don't worry too much about Io, it's good she can see that sometimes things are difficult for you... It helps them to then know that it's OK to not be OK itms?
    Talk to A, tell him how much it upset you.
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    Thank you both. Xx
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    How are you today love?
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    Sometimes it is difficult to know what to do though I do get why you were peeved, it was good your little one gave a cuddle though
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    I didnt sleep great so went back to bed after getting Io to work. I got another 1.5hrs.
    Positives.... I've had a shower and washed my hair. I made myself go for a walk with the dog. I've done the dishes and sorted laundry. I logged on to my zoom class even though I just want to isolate. I'm working on my crochet orders. I've eaten and I'm medicated.

    I'm a bit sad and a bit all over the place in my thoughts. I'm more than a bit paranoid but I'm recognising all this and trying not to let it take over. I'm fighting.
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    It sounds like you've done loads love.
    Do you want to talk about the sad and the paranoia?
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