Thanks everyone. She still hasn’t been in touch which is unlike her but she may have got the message? The last time we were in touch was Tuesday and that was ok but then I made the decision to cut off some of these forms of contact. Normally she’s in touch every day so as it’s been a few days now I think she must know something is up. My phone is certainly less busy!!

I’ve certainly picked a bad time to do it as I’ve got so many other problems but this could have just gone on for ages if I hadn’t acted and I actually feel ok being out of it which is a nice surprise.