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    Librarian and chief holder of antiquities and biscuits Jaquaia's Avatar
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    I've suggested my staying at my parents the night before. That way I can also still help them with housework and claim carers for a bit longer.
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    That sounds like a good idea sweetie, my concern would be the housework being left until you went it would leave a lot for you to do in a shorter space of time, am basing that on what you have said that they are relying on you totally at the moment and not being funny itms?
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    Angie makes a good point. Is that not just going to mean you doing everything in 2 days rather than being able to spread things out?
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    They would have to do more themselves. I wouldn't be able to do it all on my own. To be fair, a lot of my dads pain is self-inflicted, between retiring and now, he's piled on 5 stone and I don't think his body is handling it well...
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    Any thoughts on getting a cleaner or a carer in to help them?
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    Then I think you’re going to need to have a list of things you’re prepared to do when you’re there and, if the rest isn’t done, it’s down to them itms
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    Maybe you could talk to them about it and maybe let your siblings know when you know when you are planning to move out?
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    Possibly!

    Just getting ready to set off for the panto! I'm excited!!
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    Enjoy the panto!!
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    Hope you had a brilliant time!
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