Bless him...he's finding it hard to let go isn't he? I can't help but agree with Suzi, to avoid conflict, heartache and unnerving the kids and making them miserable I think it would be wiser to go to the kids' events separately. It makes you miserable too because you have to hear it all and you have no control over it! She certainly is a nasty bit of work isn't she?
She's a horrid piece of work. She's been seeing someone for around 4 months (or so she says) she's made the children stay at his house several times, he's always staying there, they've met his daughter, they're always kissing and cuddling in front of them and T is really struggling with it all. It's going too fast for him. J told her that yesterday and she just said he hasn't said anything to her. No! Because he's too scared to!!!
Oh and now she's talking about moving in with him...
J says he's trying to do the right thing but like I pointed out, the children are having to witness it all and it's not good or fair on them.
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What I don't understand is that if all this is going on, then why is he being so strange about introducing you etc and making you and he properly public and why is he hanging on to her? There's no need for them to go together to anything, they aren't the first set of parents to separate and still want to both go to school events etc I just don't understand it and it must hurt so much with him telling you all this, but all 3'rd hand as you aren't public.... I don't know how you're dealing with it.
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Apparently the school put the nativity tickets in A's bookbag so Cruella had them. And she was supposed to meet him there for the dance show but she decided to take A to rehearsals beforehand as she needed make up doing. As it was, she was screeching at A so J ended up doing her eyeliner!!!
It does hurt and he doesn't seem to understand it but he's been told I want to be properly public by the new year as I'm fed up of it all now
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And do you think it will happen by the new year? I do think you are right though. Its time.
It had better. Enough is enough now
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Flo (09-12-19)
Good. Really good to hear!
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Flo (09-12-19)
Well done Jaq. I am so proud of you for standing up for yourself. You really do deserve so much better than this!
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I'm realising that
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Paula (10-12-19)
That's one of the best posts I've ever read.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
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