Your feelings are important too.... Maybe write your feelings down and hand it to her?
Your feelings are important too.... Maybe write your feelings down and hand it to her?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I sent her a letter last week it wasnt even acknowledgedOriginally Posted by Suzi
Today i sent a text just saying that i respect her decision im hurt and that im here for her
i dont know if there is much else i can do to be honest without pushing her further away
Maybe you need to give her a couple of days and then just send her another message?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
thats been my thinking, just leave her until the weekend and if she reaches out great if not then so be it
she has replied to my message this morning saying that she really appreciates my words and that she is sorry for hurting me
for today and the rest of the week, i think i need to just get on with my life and look after my health
That sounds more than sensible... I hope you're not going to vanish from here though?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
No way....... Im currently making her gift, an idea ive seen online - a jar full of handwritten quotes, reminders and ideas on how to relax, colour coded, ill send her in for the weekend, hope it puts a smile on her face and makes her realise everyday how much i care
That's so lovely! She's very lucky to have you!-.gif ")")
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
im not sure how it will be received but i can only try and support herThat's so lovely! She's very lucky to have you!
Suzi (18-09-19)
It's worth a try. At least you'll always know you've done all you can to try...
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I’m wrestling with myself tonight
She’s asked for space, do you think sending this gesture might drive her further away considering the response I received over the letter ?
Could she view this as me suffocating her more ?
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