No need to apologize for being quiet.
We all know how well you are trying and doing the best you can. We can relate to the struggle with the thoughts. And knowing you should not feel guilty and not feel guilty are different things. In my book you are always on the page of people I admire and people I think of with warm caring feelings.
I was so happy to read you asked for help from the Samaritans. That is awesome. And great that you keep going out to swim.gif "(bear)")
Paula (02-01-20),Strugglingmum (02-01-20),Suzi (02-01-20)
Sweetie, if you can’t say anything else, it’s ok just to say ‘hi’. Thank you for talking to the Samaritans
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
Strugglingmum (02-01-20)
I'm so proud of you for calling the Samaritans. Did they help lovely? As has been said, you don't have to say anything specific - just say hi....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
Strugglingmum (02-01-20)
I've always had a good experience with Samaritans.Originally Posted by Suzi
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Good, I'm glad.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
My CPN cancelled her visit today so I'm feeling a bit lost. Does that make me very needy? Am I too attached? Is that a sign of my personality disorder? Have I just never been aware of being so needy with people? Have I always been like this but just not realised it? I always thought I was very independent but maybe I've just been fooling myself.
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No! You aren't too needy at all! You're overthinking it love. If someone cancels on me I feel a bit lost too! It's totally "normal" if you ask me!
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I agree. That sounds like a normal reaction to me. And from how you explained it nothing sounds like being needy. I would have the same reaction.
It's very difficult not to read too much into a cancellation like this. Try not to worry, have they made a different appointment for you?
I agree it’s not needy - these appointments are important and I’m not surprised you’ve found it tough
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
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