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    That sounds very reasonable to me. I also find (and this is from my Bath programme) that it helps me to assign ‘values’ to the tasks - ie, why they’re important to me and what I’m aiming for in life. For instance, yesterday it was important that I have a real endorphin lift so I did some choir practice and really belted out the song (so much so that Si heard me 2 floors above me) - this value is looking after my mental health. Today, I’m going to study - this value is about keeping my brain from stagnating. It’s a way of keeping myself on track. Does that make sense?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Yes it makes sense. I think I need to get a sense of me first.
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    I think your system is really good - and I agree with Paula about the values - we did that in IMPACT too. It's really important to see where you are putting your time/energy - whether it's for you, or others etc..
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Spoke to my CPN today. She thinks my goal setting is working well and that I'm managing better this week. Even better, my next appt with her is a face to face instead of a phone call.
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    That’s fab! When do you see her?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Well done hunni, that's really brilliant!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Paula View Post
    That’s fab! When do you see her?
    Not this incoming week but the next. It will be good to sit face to face with someone and talk things out I'm not good on phone or online. A is pleased that someone will be actually clapping eyes on me to see how I'm doing.
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    Are you talking to A about how you are feeling? It will be good to see someone. You learn so much about how someone is really doing through body language as well as what they are and are not saying itms?

    What's on your agenda for today?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Today is a public holiday here. I've been for a walk, done some crochet. I have to give my son a lift to town to meet his girlfriend as there are no buses on a public holiday. He is meeting her parents for the first time.

    I would like to pot up a couple of plants but I'll see how things go. I still have a couple of things on my goal list.
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    That sounds like a good day!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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