Diary of a book addict

[Angie]

[Jaquaia]

It sounds as if you are doubting that things are going to change for a while.... You actually sound sad and flat...

I think part of me is. It's taken so long for him to just tell her, there isn't much that makes me think this will be any different. I understand that it needs to be done gently, but I want it to be him that tells them, not her in a moment of spite.

[Suzi]

I can totally understand that - it also struck me as odd that he didn't pack her stuff away before you went to stay.... There's telling them gently and then there's just not doing anything to push forward...

[Mira]

Just catching up on your thread. And I agree with what others have mentioned. Doing it slowly is different from bot at all. And one thing I learn in therapy is that things can exist together. Like understanding he wants to do things in one way because he feels its right for the children. But also be a bit angry about it because it leaves you waiting and on the side line.

Going to send you one big

[Suzi]

Actually I think Mira has hit it spot on.Epically good post Mira. I think you are completely right to be a complete jumble of emotions...

[Jaquaia]

My hands and wrists are aching, they're not reacting well to the colder weather at all. Never actually get asked if I'm okay though before my mum volunteers me for jobs involving my hands...

Funnily enough, my mood is much better now my TOTM has finished. I think I may have to give in and speak to my GP about it...

[Angie]

Aww sweetie please pace if not rest, can you ask your mum to ask you before volunteering you for things

[Jaquaia]

There wouldn't be much point as she'll just keep doing it.

[Angie]

Sweetie can you start refusing and saying to her that you will do that until she asks you first xx

[Suzi]

What's she volunteering you for?
Please go and see your Dr love..... TOTM is having a massive effect on your mood love...