Diary of a book addict

[Jaquaia]

I have no intention of being anything but myself with them. We've discussed my first meeting being with his mum and dad there too. I want them to see what a relationship should be like between two people who love each other, as there is no way on this earth I want them growing up thinking that was normal.

[Paula]

What I was thinking, really, is you maybe don’t want to wait very much longer as it’ll give her the opportunity to turn them against you itms

[Jaquaia]

I'll bring it up with him when he's feeling a bit better

[Suzi]

^^^wss and, actually, she will make sure they know about you - you owe it to J to see that they see how wonderful you are

You owe it to you too.

I have no intention of being anything but myself with them. We've discussed my first meeting being with his mum and dad there too. I want them to see what a relationship should be like between two people who love each other, as there is no way on this earth I want them growing up thinking that was normal.

Exactly - but you have to figure how YOU feel into all this too. Is there an idea of timeframe for you to meet them? It would make sense to me to do it before Christmas - then they can have 2 christmases - 1 with her and 1 with a loving and sensible and awesome couple who will surround them with love.....

What I was thinking, really, is you maybe don’t want to wait very much longer as it’ll give her the opportunity to turn them against you itms

^^ exactly this...

[Jaquaia]

We've not discussed it since she was told so I honestly don't know. I suppose I would like to meet them before Christmas. He did say soon but with how organised he is, soon could be when A starts secondary! We need to sit down and discuss it properly really.

[Angie]

Sitting and discussing it sounds a good idea sweetie xx

[Suzi]

And you need to help him with his organisational skills

[Jaquaia]

Oh yes! We've briefly touched on it tonight and he said possibly before Christmas...

[Suzi]

Woohoo! I can't see any reasons for waiting! They need you in your life and you need to live your happy life.

[Jaquaia]

Well I've found out tonight that she hasn't even been seeing this guy for 3 months yet and wants to introduce him to the children when they get to 3 months...