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    I am from the Netherlands. So are my siblings and mum. The rest all live in Germany.

    Where are you from?

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    Romania and Moldova, citizen of both, currently in Moldova with my mom.

    I lived in Latvia too and even planned to remain for some time (my dad is from Latvia), but our family relation is very poor and difficut.

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    That is such a shame. Even more so when those are the first people to turn to. I had a difficult time with my stepdad.

    Those are some amazing countries. I love history and there is a lot there. The languages sounds awesome too. Always wanted to explore more of that part of europe.

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    I can't agree strongly enough with the others. I think you should not wait for counselling when you need it now lovely....
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I'm also feeling so guilty just because I cannot cope with my inability to stand up to depression, feeling so weird cause I'm not like normal average person.

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    Can’t cope? You’ve gone through serious illness with your mother, suffered a bereavement, kept your home environment going despite being a carer for your mum, dealt with a horrible boss and continue to successfully hold down your job.all that while battling depression? No, you’re not a normal average person - you’re super human!
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    I completely agree with Paula! You're amazing!
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I'm also feeling so guilty just because I cannot cope with my inability to stand up to depression, feeling so weird cause I'm not like normal average person.
    I'll be interested to know what you think a 'normal average person' is, because I haven't come across one yet! You're doing ok, so give yourself a pat on the back and a gold star!!

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    You are right and thank you for support!

    I mean in my country depressed and anxious people are still perceived as weak....
    Some of the people I know noticed something, but I abstained from explanations as it's hard to describe my feelings to them.

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    Selena, you are definitely not weak! You are a very, very strong lady.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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