Selena on the Way to Wonderland *SH TRIGGERS*

[Suzi]

I'm sorry lovely. If she won't consider chemo what is she prepared to do?
I am concerned that she will only believe in God and the church, reject all scientific help and that she will start saying horrible and unkind things to you again. You don't deserve that...

[Flo]

I hope your mum makes the decision to have more treatment if it's offered. She has nothing to lose. But you make sure to look after yourself too. You're such a supportive daughter and she's so lucky to have you.

[Suzi]

I But you make sure to look after yourself too. You're such a supportive daughter and she's so lucky to have you.

I can't agree with this strongly enough.

[OldMike]

[selena]

Thank you everybody for support.

She talked to the oncologist, he is reserved for chemo treatment in her case, as she had three surgeries and her organs underwent resection.

This conclusion of "Multiple Mts" really stands in my mind. Now I think about whether to consider home work for my office. My mind is really troubled now.

[Suzi]

What exactly did the oncologist say? Are there any treatment options or is he saying palliative care only?

[selena]

He did not specify anything concretely, maybe because he is of older generation and we have a few specialists of this profile.

Her surgeon thinks instead she should and can require chemo treatment in connection with Mts.

She found out about possible side effects and does not want any pain because she had already undergone three surgeries and knows that chemo might slow down her health fast.

[Suzi]

But chemo could give her a longer life too?
Obviously she can only be guided by her medical team as to what is the right path for her... Please though, take care of you.

[selena]

Yesterday she had fever, a high temperature, in fact 39.2 C. She took medications and antibiotics prescribed by her doctor. Her condition got better. But tomorrow she wants to go to church and doesn't want to get some more rest home.

She doesn't want to obey and have some rest.

[Suzi]

Thing is, she is an adult and she has to make her own choices. It's hard, but you can't lock her in...