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    Quote Originally Posted by selena View Post
    I want your opinion on something.

    You know, I always appreciate your opinions on no matter what...

    Should I feel guilty because I'm unwilling to visit a certain place or someone I share blood ties with?
    Not in the slightest, particularly when that person has not been willing to compromise
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Sorry. Double post. Its all in the other one.
    Last edited by Mira; 26-03-19 at 08:55 PM. Reason: Double post

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    Well from reading your posts in the past I see that we both have depression and low self esteem. This sadly males it easier to feel guilty about situations and questions people ask.

    But i dont think you should feel guilty at all about those two things. Whatever reasons you may have they are reasons. And they are true to you. I dont think it would be good doing things out of guilt. That will only make things worse.

    People like us need to look out for ourselfs a bit more. And there is defenitly no guilt in that.

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    Definitely not feel guilty... We've had similar conversations in my house about Marc's Dad and that none of my children want to see him. He doesn't bother with them and is an alcoholic so why should they have to have contact if they aren't going to get anything positive from him? If they change their minds we will always make it happen, but sometimes the kindest thing for you is to not see them and to focus more on your own self care.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    How are you feeling? Did the advice people gave here help a little?

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    Of course, it helped a lot (as usually!)!

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    How are you lovely?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Definitely better, because had a quiter week and a nice week-end with more rest and no extra translations to be done.

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    Good, I'm glad!
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