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Thread: Selena on the Way to Wonderland *SH TRIGGERS*

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    You know, it helped to a certain extent. Maybe because I know my mom wanted it (when she was alive she always told me that I should attend at least sometimes the religious service). It was done in her memory and because it was our confessor.

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    I'm glad it helped lovely... That's the most important thing.
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I'm glad it helped, I know it is a cliche "time heals" but it is true, over time the feeling of loss of your mum will be replaced by the joy of having had her in your life.
    77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"

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    I have been today to my psychologist and it helped me a lot.

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    Oh great. What things helped?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    I don't know exactly, but I experinced extremely anxiety some days before it.

    She admitted that it is good I want changes, and actually it's good that winter time passes before it.

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    Sorry, she suggests that you wait until after winter before you make big changes? What kind of changes were you talking about?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    No.

    I told her that I can make big changes as going to another place only after NY, just cannot move now.

    She told me it is ok and no need to hurry up, it is enough by now to enjoy the small things I like.

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    I have to say I totally agree with her. You've the rest of your life, don't make any definite plans whilst you need to work through your grief and get yourself more stable and brighter emotionally...
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Couldn't agree with Suzi more sweetie, don't rush, take things one step at a time,
    If you can’t fly, then run, if you can’t run, then walk, if you can’t walk, then crawl, but by all means keep moving.
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