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    That is my idea too.

    And generally I would prefer just a friendly connection now, for my emotional safety. He seems to have got it.

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    Think of it like it is here - we don’t expect everybody to reply to our posts immediately because we understand that they will be doing other things and not just glued to their phone/laptop waiting for someone to post so they can answer them. I’m assuming this man works, has a home, has responsibilities and can’t be waiting for you to message him so he can answer immediately .....

    And, sweetie, I am never a fan of playing games like ‘punishing’ someone so they ‘behave better’. That, hunni, is no way to build a Relationship
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    I completely agree with Paula. Playing games is never a good way of forming a proper relationship...
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    How are you doing today?
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    I'm feeling sometimes so confused and lost, from moods filled with joy to a lot of tears.

    I managed to do some things about the house, but I always blame myself for not having done enough, or enough well.

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    Sweetheart you are grieving. You need to cut yourself some slack
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    Oh wow, hunni, Jaq's right, you’ve only just lost your mum. In your situation, I’d be feeling exactly the same
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Give yourself time to grieve.... The fact that you are up and dressed and eating and drinking is more than enough right now....
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Just keep me in your prayers and positive thoughts.

    The GP referred me (next week) for chest X-ray. She said it is either general health weakness due to stress or beginning of pneumonia.

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