You are perfectly right and he has an appaling attitude, especially taking into consideration mu mom's recent death.
My confessor actually encouraged me to think carefully but to try new challenges I really want.
You are perfectly right and he has an appaling attitude, especially taking into consideration mu mom's recent death.
My confessor actually encouraged me to think carefully but to try new challenges I really want.
I really think that it's important for you to stop and think really carefully - maybe get your mental health a bit more stable and certainly not so soon whilst you are grieving. You've been through an awful lot love. Give yourself time.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
There’s absolutely no harm in waiting, thinking about what you really want/need before you do anything. Taking a huge step like this can only be done once and, if it’s the wrong step, it’s going to have a huge impact possibly for the rest of your life. If it’s the right thing for you, then it’ll still be the right thing in a few months/years. You’re grieving and trying to find a way out of that grief. Please make 100% sure this is right.
Also, hunni, don’t take this the wrong way, but remember you need to be so careful in completely changing your life, and safety, for someone you’ve never met, particularly when you’re emotionally vulnerable ....
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
selena (11-10-19),Strugglingmum (11-10-19),Suzi (12-10-19)
Selena what Suzi said (quoted above) has got it absolutely right, you mustn't make any decisions quickly while you're grieving and do what is best for YOU and what YOU want to do.Originally Posted by Suzi
77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"
You are perfectly right.
Yesterday I felt 100 % what means to be alone (my local friends live in other cities and go home on week-end). I was ill and was literally crawling.
Thank God, now I'm fine.
Paula, you are just perfectly right about the right choice.
But I'm open to new challenges. Some days ago a woman who had been friendly with my grandma told me that I must be very attentive from now on, as there are many jealous people in my local place and I'm considered to be "wealthy" due to my apartment.
All this scares me.
As for the man, I think it's early to make any judgements, actually he did not try to rush me in any relationship.
Future will tell.
This friend of your grandma’s, is this someone whose advice you trust?
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
I don't really know her well enough. But in this aspect I think she is right taking into consideratin the reality.
In what way were you ill lovely? Are you feeling better?
Hunni, why don't you just wait and see how things are in a little while. You have been through so much. Focus on getting you better....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
A kind of flu, also pancreas pains.
But I am definitely feeling better now.
Are you taking your medication properly? Are you eating and drinking properly?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
magie06 (13-10-19)
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