Selena on the Way to Wonderland *SH TRIGGERS*

[Suzi]

Is going to your Dad's something that is going to be a healthy choice? I thought you had a difficult relationship with him?

[Paula]

Hunni, is this a knee jerk reaction to losing your mum or is it something you really want?

[selena]

This is what I really want. However, I should be wise and to take decisions in a hurry, especially taking into consideration my dad.

[Suzi]

You've never talked fondly of your Dad lovely - only of him letting you down or putting other people before you - are you really sure?

[selena]

Maybe I'll try to find a job offer in another country, if I fail to reach an agreement with him.

[Suzi]

Can I ask why you are so determined to leave your country?

[selena]

Many bad memories and actually I've been thinking about it for many years due to lack of normal medical service (mental health service is very poor) and rather corrupt legal system.

[Suzi]

Is there somewhere specific that you want to move to?

[selena]

I thought about an English or French speaking country, like UK (but Brexit time, I really don't know) or France.

As for Latvia, my doubts are not only about my dad, but also about language policy, that in this way I can run out of money without his support. Reason? Latvians require a normal knowledge of the state language, otherwise it is impossible to be normally employed.
I also sometimes think that my dad wants me to be literally by his side as a caregiver.

I own a good flat in a good district. But I should make many adjustments and everything to be done not in a hurry and very carefully.

[Suzi]

The thing is, you have been your Mum's carer and your Grandmothers for so long - please don't get trapped into being your dad's or anyone elses! It's more than time for you to do the things that YOU want to do and live the life you want!