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    At psychologist?

    This image of my mother is haunting me down, on the last day before her death. The words of the doctor from emergency team, she said to her partner pointing at my mum:
    " Look how beautiful this woman is. Her eyes are so nice."

    This is haunting me down.

    Maybe to tell him the truth and to ask just to be left in peace?

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    Selena it's a good image to have of your mum beautiful with nice eyes on the last days of her life.
    77 and counting, less of the "Old" call me "Mike"

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    Psychologist, counsellor, psychotherapist... it doesn't matter where the help comes from as long as they are qualified to give it.

    You're grieving lovely. In time, you will learn how to deal with it but right now it is still really raw.
    Tên përdu, jhamâi së rëcôbro

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    Hunni, now is possibly not the right time to be thinking about a relationship. I do think you need professional support to work through your grief but also, when it’s time, your past and the way you think about men. But all this is going to take time and your priority today has to be looking after yourself. Are you eating and drinking?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    I'm trying to do it properly and in time.

    I'm feeling so disappointed about myself that I have fallen in deep grief again. And that I haven't managed so far to do all necessary things about the house.

    Tomorrow I'll have my next appointment at psychologist.

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    You shouldn’t be disappointed. It’s very early days and it’s a bumpy road - today is tough, tomorrow may be better - but you are doing really well.
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    Sweetheart your grieving, you need to give yourself the time to do that x
    If you can’t fly, then run, if you can’t run, then walk, if you can’t walk, then crawl, but by all means keep moving.
    Quote by Martin Luther King JR

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    Should I think bad about that guy?

    Or maybe I shoulld tell him to just leave me now in peace?

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    What do you mean that he didn't reply to you in time? How much time? Have you met him in person? Where is he from?

    Have you located a psychiatrist/psychologist?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Yes, but once. He is currently working abroad. Being onine, talking to me than leaving without reading my message. It might be nearly a day. Not willing to say bad things, I'm just feeling worse in the process of communication, maybe just not the time.

    Yes.

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