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    Sorry, I’m not quite sure what you mean. Can you give us more details?
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    What is it you want to plan?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    About living alone or invite a friend for a while.

    I had been to a psychologist. I'm feeling such a relief, today prepared after some soup - first time since my mother's death.

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    Today is the first day you've eaten since your Mum passed away?

    Why don't you just take a little while to see how you are? There is no hurry?
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Thee first day I've prepared more normal and consistent food.

    No hurry, especially it would be better to wait until the end of the year.

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    I'm glad you're eating properly.
    Why not wait then and see how things settle. You've been through quite a lot recently and I really think working on your own mental health might be a good idea...
    Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!


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    Your life has changed so much, hunni, it’s probably be sensible to take some time to figure out what your next steps are
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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    They always say that you shouldn't make any big life choices in the months following a bereavement. I honestly think like Suzi and Paula that you should give yourself time to adjust to life without your mum. I know when my own mother dies I rushed a few decisions that probably should have had a bit more thought. Take time to concentrate on you and discover what it is exactly that you want out of life.
    You are so kind and dedicated a lot to looking after your mum, you need to rediscover you. Xx
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    Thank you, that is true too.

    I developed anyway a kind of eating disorder: i can eat, than the next I cannot either in the evening. Lack of appetite and nausea.

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    I’d say that was normal when going through such a difficult time - you do need to try to eat, but lack of appetite is usual. Don’t worry that you’re developing an eating disorder
    The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.

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