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    The opinion about sexuality and women's role mostly, some see a woman either as a saint or a w...e. The idea of having intimate relationships and children only in marriage. And what if I have a different opinion...

    I think they should have focus more on other sins, like money laundering, inhuman attitude towards other people etc.

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    Do you have different opinions?
    I know that our friend who is from Romania has very traditional views about a woman's role - I think it's something that he finds difficult to accept about living here. He struggles with things being so very different from home traditions. His brother and sister have both settled down here and their attitudes are much more modern and more in line with more choice for women - that their place isn't all about being in the home cooking, cleaning and looking after children with the man as the one to go to work and earn the money etc..

    I agree. I think that actually religion should be about love, tolerance, acceptance and exactly as you say - kindness and helping those around you.
    It is hard. My parents were very religious when I was growing up and I had my place in the Church and was there every service etc and actually thought of following a career..... but then things happened and my life changed. I completely lost my faith for a long time and have only refound it in the last 10 years or so..
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    I'm simply devastated, the situation turned worse and worse.

    She is nearly always in bed on painkillers, the general progress is very low.

    I was allowed to work from home.

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    Oh hunni I'm sorry. Are you getting any support in looking after her?
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    A neighbour helps with injections, that's all.

    I'll try to ask for some assistance from the only hospital we have.

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    Do ask for help hunni. You can't do this alone.
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    I'm so sorry Selena. I wish we could do more to help you. Please ask for all the practical help you can get but also take all the emotional support you can get to move through this awful time. Xx its a hard hard road you are travelling, you will need support.
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    Sweetheart, what’s happening?
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    Hunni I've seen your posts on FB.... Talk love...
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    She is passing through a horrible pain. I cannot stop anything, the medical system has not helped at all.

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