The situation became so hard, my OCD and anxiety got worse either.
The doctors told me the situation is bad and me being at work within the week, I cannot cope with everything, I'm feeling so low. Every day my mom struggles with severe pains, but she refuses to take morphine or apply to hospice services.
Why aren't you talking to us lovely? You don't need to leave it until you feel like you're at breaking point to come and talk to us.
Have you got any support? Are there maybe support groups for family members of cancer sufferers?
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I really wanted to, just had been stuck, maybe not expecting these harsh moments would develop so suddenly.
I am a member of international Cholangocarcinoma group on FB, they are very helpful.
She will have her good days along with the bad, but it's important that you look after yourself too lovely. Keep talking. Cancer is a cruel disease but it can help to know you're not alone
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Sweetheart you don't have to deal alone, we're here and we really care about you.
The doctors are suggesting you don't work? Then what happens about money?
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
selena (01-09-19)
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selena (01-09-19)
They suggested taking her to hospice after a while, if the situation becomes harder.
She agreed to apply for Morphine, at least some good news.
I'm sorry things have got worse so quickly. I'm glad your mum has agreed to pain relief. Hopefully it will help, although she may be a bit more sleepy with it. Can you get any practical help at home?
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selena (01-09-19)
Not too much, but I'm trying to do my best.
Will she not think about going to the hospice for a while? I know that the hospice my Dad went to was so valuable for him, but also for those caring for him....
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
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