Selena on the Way to Wonderland *SH TRIGGERS*

[Suzi]

Oh sweetheart What did they say?

[selena]

They started to give her Tramadol (although not often) and put her on some drips.

Actually she went for a walk in the hospital yard.

Her main doctor pointed out that they cannot heal her, but maybe can make symptoms or life generally a bit easier.

[Suzi]

Is it cancer that she has lovely?

[selena]

Yes, that is.

[Suzi]

Has it spread or do you know what stage it is?

[selena]

It's MT stage, it was 3rd before, but now it's more spread...

[Suzi]

Spread to where? What have the doctors said? Are you getting any support from your friends/anyone else?

[selena]

Liver and it's probably lung Mt.

The doctors said she is in the stage to receive stronger drugs.

There are good people around. But no really close persons.

[Suzi]

So is she back at home? Do you have any charities which can help support you through this? It's hideous watching someone you love get iller and iller.... We have Macmillan who provide nurses, therapists etc etc Might be worth looking around? You can't be the only person in this position....

[selena]

She will probably be back on Monday.
We have one hospice (charity financed by foreign organization).

I called them around 2 weeks ago. They seemed nice and trained. She said it will be better not to leave till the end when the person is dying on the last stage.

They will examine her at home. We can agree so that they come and put her on the drip, but usually people go to hospice where all conditions are fulfilled.

My mom refused by that time.

We talked about it because she wanted me to keep full-time work as it provides normal financial support. We cannot let it no matter who and see her on pain that's horrible. Dying home or there...it is a tough choice. But there are no other persons who can take care of her than those from hospice.
We'll talk following her return back.