Closer to home or just discussing in groups with general shared interests.
Not too active though. But trust is definitely an issue in my case.
Closer to home or just discussing in groups with general shared interests.
Not too active though. But trust is definitely an issue in my case.
Trust really doesn't had overnight. When you enter a relationship, you should just enjoy getting to know one another. Trust will come, but it's more important to get to know one another first.
selena (07-07-19)
The thing is not only about the distance. Maybe you can judge better as mothers of daughters.
My mom is mostly against that I get into something serious with someone not Christian. That this is a sin and can have consequences.
What kind of sin if I will always be Christian? My idea of being a Christian is different from my mother's...I cannot repair it or be different.
One of my good local friends gets married. Her husband is an Atheist, so they will not have a religious wedding ceremony. But he deeply respects her values. Even my confessor is not so strict.
Sometimes it's tough. Once I start getting closer to someone and...suddenly there are some obstacles.
I’m a Christian and Si’s not. I wish it was different but it doesn’t affect how I feel about him. It is hard sometimes, but we’ve been together over 20 years and work through any problems together.
As for sin? Well, God wants a relationship with each one of us, and we’re sinners ......
The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.
selena (07-07-19)
I'm a Christian and Marc's not. I do understand that some would see that as a sin, but I don't really follow the whole idea of sin when it comes to something like this. I am quite sure that God spreads love. Love from him to me, from me to him and between people. Surely love is love and being happy is what's more important?
My parents weren't happy that we didn't get married in a Church, but our vicar has no issues and says that our marriage is very blessed.
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
selena (07-07-19)
Sorry to burt in like this. I hate narrow minded thoughts. No matter who expresses them. I try to love all. Christians, muslims, different nationalities, every gender no matter what.
What does it matter if someone is religious or not? Is it not love that matters? There is evil and good in every group. There are many atheïsts that could be saints and religious people that could be called sinners.
I would only "judge" your partner on if he loves you and treat you right. For me its that simple.
This post is AWESOME!Originally Posted by Mira
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
I'm really really nervous.
My mom often complains of weakness and fever. She always anyway tries do about the house in my absence.
This thought of death makes me crazy and leaves me totally worn out, without any inner peace.
I'm just left breathless.
Do you think a psychologist will help me to get the things milder, to get calmer? I mean private sessions.
But not any specialist can deal with this aspect. I told her about this.
She told me instead that I can go to church and confess there...
In these moments, I'm feeling lost and I hate myself for not being able to change anything. Absolutely.
My realtion with God (better saying prayer) is confusing and complicated. I just want to hurt my hand or fingers, this is like a nervous reaction.
Why are you wanting to hurt yourself?
Sweetheart I hate to be blunt, but I'm quite sure your Mum is talking about these things because she knows you don't like it and find it hard to deal with and also keeps you closer to her - I know you were talking of planning your next trip (to Paris?) - Could it be that she is trying to make you stay with her?
Yes counselling can help with fear of death etc..
Do a little of something that makes you happy every day!
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